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Accelerated Comfort using Future Projection

Many of you guys know this but it is good to go back to basics from time to time. It can always help you reflect and see things in a different light. Below is a routine that I created using Future Projections and Pair bonding to help achieve deep levels of comfort within a short period of time. Check it out!

The trick to having little to no LMR is comfort. Comfort is crucial to getting laid! The more comfort you build, the less LMR you will get. The game is truly played in comfort. Many girls makes the guy wait a little before having sex with them mainly because they are not comfortable with the idea of having sex with the guy. That is why it is so important for you to not only have rapport but sexual rapport and build a solid connection with her. If you build her sexual comfort effectively, there will be no time limit on how soon you can have sex with her.

Future Projecting is a powerful tool that can greatly increase her comfort level with you. When done properly, it anchors strong feelings of comfort that can only otherwise be achieved by spending long periods of time with each other; it brings that feeling into the present moment.

Below is an example routine of how to properly future project and use pair bonding for a one-two punch.

"You really have to go with me to my friend’s beach house in Mexico with me! It will be so much fun! Imagine you and me lying on the beach in the warm sun relaxing sipping on a cold tall glass of pina colada listening to the waves of the ocean and feeling the cool breeze flowing through our hair. Can you feel the warm sand between your toes? I can see it now! I notice you need more sun block on your shoulders and back so I help you put some on like this. (Then demonstrate as if you were going to put sun block on her shoulders and back).

“Then I noticed how tensed you are so I give you a slow relaxing massage and put you to sleep in my arms. Wouldn’t that be amazing?! Then I later we can go horseback riding down the beach and watch the sunset as we head back for a dinner that is waiting for us on the patio. There will be tiki torches and sweet bottles of wine waiting for us. Then we can go and dance on the sand in the moonlight all night. (Grab her and embrace her like you are slow dancing) and get her to feel your touch and imagine herself actually there with you."

To add a Buying Temperature spike you can also say:

"Wait! You’re not a cheap drunk are you? (do a light push by letting her go of the embrace) Because with all of that wine, you will be stepping on my toes and falling all over the place. So…… I will have to carry you back to the bedroom like this. (Then pick her up and carry her for a few seconds.) This will get her out of the trance and pump up her BT.
Then bring her back into the trance for even a deeper added effect (Fractionation).

Then as you are lying there in my arms, I am holding you close and gently move your hair to the side and slowly caress your soft beautiful skin with the back of my fingers. (Move her hair out of her face and lightly caress her face with the back of your hands and fingers. You can go in for a kiss at this time if you wish. Or you can get close to get her to anticipate it and pull away to tease her and build some sexual tension. Logistically, you must be close to her in order to have a smooth transition."

Qualify her to get her to work to earn your right to go with you.

"But I am not sure if that is something you would enjoy. Do you like spending relaxing weekends on the beach with someone special to you?"
Can you see how powerful the routine can be? It is effective on several levels.

1. It gets her to imagine spending time with you in the future

2. And if she was to lie on the beach next to you some place far away, it means she’s already really comfortable with you. Weekend get-a-ways are usually associated with couples spending intimate time together. She will imagine spending time with you as a couple. Also, lying on a beach in a bikini implies that she has a certain level of comfort in exposing her body to you. Also rooming with you in a hotel conveys more pair bonding.

3. Also at the end of the routine, get her to accept your frame by verbal confirmation. It helps solidify her acceptance in her mind.

4. For increased effectiveness, ask her to describe details of the future projeciton to you. If she can see herself there with you, then she can see you in her life down the line. And that can build some serious comfort!

5. Also, doing the push pull will help maintain attraction and eliminate the creepy vibe. It will also help her fractionate.

6. You are also generating attraction and sexual arousal at the same time by leading her imagination and showing dominance by manipulating her body and carrying her. It also helps her feel more comfortable with your physical touch.

7. With this routine, you can bring it up later in the interaction and joke about it. You can say, in a playful way, “If you don’t behave yourself, I’m not going to take you horseback riding with me…Don’t force me to take my sugar momma with me?!”

Next time, I will post my Pairing bonding Instant Arousal Routine.

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Hey guys! I know I haven't been posting for a while. After getting swamped with work and having a flu for over a week, I couldn't catch up with my obligations to loyal readers. But stay tuned. I will take care of you guys soon!

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Here, I will divule all my secret routines and techniques that I personally use to achieve success rates as high 90%. Via video, audio and articles, The Sexual Accelerator Technique™ will take your game to a completely new level! Everything is completely free for now. I will be charging a subscription based service later. If you guys mention you are blog read, I'll hook you guys up with a special so you guys could have VIP exclusive access. So check out the site and show some love! I also created a blog. Check it out for updates on the site. I'm still working on it but plan to go live packed with content by March 1st. Tell me what you guys think!

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I recently joined the Warrior King Society. I was more interested in his ideas about business and basically having the freedom to live anywhere in the world, and at the same time, make a lot of money passively. At $100 per month, I was skeptical, but after I signed up and received the first newsletter, I was sold! I wanted to join a group where I can network wth other like minded individuals on finance and personal freedom.

Imagine yourself living anywhere you want in the world and having enough income generated so that you don't work. You can do pickup all day or whatever you'd like to do with your free time. Wouldn't that be awesome? So check it out if you guys are interested. The link is below.

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Real Busy with work..

.....so I haven't had a chance to post my weekly tip #4. I will do so by this sunday so stay tuned. Also, I joined Captain Jack's Warrior King Society. The first few news letters blew me away. It talks about money and how you can get away with just working a few hours a week and make more money that you are making now. You should definately check it out if you get a chance. His blog link is captainjackpua.blogspot.com. I've also added his blog link to my roster.

New blog look....

My old layout was a quick blog setup so not too much time and thought was put into it. So since I am still up and can't fall asleep, I might as well do something productive. So introducing Quality's new blog look!!!

I know... It's kind of simple and plain. I just hate going to those blogs where you have to highlight the text just to be able to read the content. This layout is simple yet functional. Besides, I'm still new to blogging. Let me know what you guys think!

Quality's - ABC of Attraction Weekly Tip #3

Weekly tip #3

“Bitch!! Where ma money?!” How to pay. The gangsta way!



When starting out in the community, I was bombarded and overwhelmed with so many theories, routines, and rules. I went out and tried almost everything while not really understanding the basic concepts and how to apply them. Not fully understanding the concepts and how it applies resulted to me being humbled and humiliated on many occasions. Boy did I pay my dues!!!



One concept generally misunderstood is the concept of not paying for her. Supplication. As Ross Jefferies says, “Those who supplicates…….masturbates!” Generally, you wouldn’t want to offer her a drink to talk to her or pay for her dinner to get her come out with you. But due to society programming, there are scenarios that are appropriate to pay for her and if you don’t, it can make her feel awkward and uncomfortable. All that hard work to building comfort and connection is now in jeopardy because you’re a cheapo. So to give you guys some ways you can pay for the ladies while avoiding the supplication traps and a date with Rosie Palmer and her 5 sisters, read on!



Buying her drinks

Tell her, “I feel like getting a drink, come with me!” If she complies, reward her for being a good girl. Order your drink then turn around and say, “What would you like to drink?” This conveys that you want to get a drink for yourself and asked her to come along. And since she complied, you are a cool guy and offer her one too. That’s a completely different frame from, “Can I buy you a drink.” The latter shows that you are offering her a drink and implies that you want to buy her time so that she will hopefully be nice and allow you to talk to her a little longer.



Remember, men are providers after all so you will need to demonstrate that you can provide for her if needed. Do this only if she is a good girl and not to win her over with your money. I’ve had many occasions when I could have gotten some action if only I were able to get the voice of “Don’t ever buy her a drink” out of my head and use the proper framing for it when I did. Remember everything you learn is a guideline. Not a rule. Understand the concept and theory, and be sure you know how to apply it.



Got it? Let’s try it again. Here’s another example.



Paying for dinner the AFC way

Taking her to dinner as the main part of the date and paying for her.



Paying for dinner, the PUA way.

“Hey I’m hungry! I want to grab a bite to eat.” I would also take the lead and try to order for her by making recommendations. Because YOU wanted to eat and you did all the ordering, it’s only fair to pay. The same is expected even with your buddies. What you can also do for good measure, is when the check comes out, grab the check and tell her, “I got this one, you can get dessert.” Even if she doesn’t fight or offer to pay, it will set the frame that it’s not going to be a free ride for her and that she will need to invest some funds later if she want any more of you.



On a side note, encourage sharing for good pair bonding measure. i.e. “Let’s share an appetizer and an entrée. They make the best calamari here. And the spaghetti is to die for. You cool with that?” The purpose with getting her confirmation is to show that you can be a man and take the lead, but at the same time, you respect her input. Also, you make sure she isn’t allergic to any of the food. The cheese on that spaghetti will guarantee some ass if she’s lactose intolerant.….Smelly ass! :D



Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.

Quality's - ABC of Attraction Weekly Tip #2

Quality’s - Sexual Tension and Dominance routine a.k.a. “The Panty Soaker”

Here it is guys! What peaked your curiosity for weeks is now being revealed! I am about to reveal my “money” Quality’s Sexual Tension and Dominance routine a.k.a. “The Panty Soaker” (As mentioned in the Quality’s 100% Successful LMR Post).

Be careful when using it because it can turn her on so much that she will take serious advantage of you! You’ve gotten fair warning!

When you are at the extraction location, take her hand and lead her to the bedroom or anywhere that you plan to have the LMR battle. It is a good idea to ground it with something like “Come with me.(Reach out your hand) I want to show you my horoscope book. Let’s see if we are compatible.” Chick crack works best.

Then as you walk her through the room, apply Quality’s The Panty Soaker. One thing to note is that you should have already given her an attraction kiss or have some sexual tension establish. Pre-LMR should have long been started.

Quality’s The Panty Soaker.
As you walk, lead her by the hand to your room. Close the door behind you slightly leaving it opened 2 to 5 inches. Then stop and pull her towards you and give her a long passionate kiss. Then make out with her for a while and make sure the kiss is a sexual kiss. Then as she gets more and more turned on, hold her tight and turn her around. Back her up against the door with one hand on the back of her lower head (to absorb impact). Then push your body against hers and slam her against the door. Slam it moderately hard. It won’t hurt her since the slightly opened door will absorb the impact. Make sure you kiss more passionately right after you slam her as you moan and make sexual noises. Make out some more. Then with the hand behind her head, dig it deep under her hair and grab a hand full of hair by the roots and pull slowly and firmly downward. If you do it right, it should look like a scene in the movies when a women emerges from the water with her head tilted up towards the sky. I make a dramatic moan at that point. I start kissing down the neck and stop where the neck meets the shoulders. Dig deep with your teeth and lips into that crevice and bite firming. Bite a few notches below breaking the skin. You will be surprise how much pain that area can take. Make elaborate moan noises at that point.

This is my favorite part:
At the point of peak arousal, I pull away and tell her we should stop/slow down and I break away walking towards the bed/book shelf etc. This is an example of how APB’s Hot/Cold could be applied before hand. It will leave her on a high note and wanting more. She will usually follow you towards the bed since she will want some more. Whether she follows you or not (I say something witty to her i.e. “Oh you want more? You’re in trouble little girl!”, I will then pick her up and toss her on the bed. You then have two options at that point. You can leave her on her back or turn her over so that she is laying on her stomach, then straddle her. Pin both of her arms down at the wrist with your hands and move very slowly towards her and lightly touch your lips while blowing warm air around her face, ear, neck and shoulders. Kiss, lick and bite accordingly. I personally like to start with her on her back. Turn her on, then turn her over. That way, I can unbuckle her bra strap while biting and kissing her neck and back. Women get highly aroused while biting of the back of her neck and lower head. Yes you might have hair in your teeth but it will drive her crazy! Then start getting ready for some fun!

Why it works: Women are naturally submissive, just as a man’s nature is to be dominant. Men gets turned on seeing a women with feminine features such as big boobs, hip/waist ratio and butts, women gets turn on by a man making her submissive. They can’t help it. When you demonstrate those key attraction switches which are taking the lead and dominance, she can’t help but to be turned on by your actions. There is something totally dominant about slamming a girl against the wall that drives her crazy. Furthermore, the dominance combo of hair pulling, neck biting, tossing and straddling just tops it off. That’s an example of letting your primal instincts come out. It is what we call cave manning. If the sexual tension was well established, then you can feel her warmth and wetness through her panties. They are usually soaking wet by the time you throw them on the bed. I once had a girl orgasm as I pinned her down as I dry humped her while telling her that she can’t do anything about what I am about to do to her and to quit resisting me because I know how much she loves it.

This routine will allow you to stimulate her physically and mainly psychologically. As I said before, the psychological is what will really turn her on. The feeling of surrender to a woman is highly arousing. The Quality’s Panty Soaker gives you the one-two punch you need to get her primed and ready so that you can unleash your animalistic urges on her.

Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.


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Quality - ABCs of Attraction's Tip of the Week #1

Getting into the game, I came up with many tips and tricks that have helped me with my game. So to help my fellow PUAs out, I will post a weekly tip to help with your game. Feel free to use the tips and report back with any successes or feedback. These tips have been 100% field tested and proven by yours truly!

Weekly tip #1
While upselling to extract an HB from a club or get a Day2, try to focus the upsell on her senses and emotions. For instance, “I know a place that makes the best waffles in town. It comes out hot and crispy on the outside but warm and moist in the inside. And their homemade maple syrup that is to die for! Mmmmm….. I’m getting hungry! Come get some waffles with me! That is much better than “We are going to Denny’s. You should come along.”

Another example is: “I found a really cool coffee house the other day that makes the best cup of coffee. It’s a really cozy place with local artist paintings and a huge fire place. All their coffee beans are imported so the moment you step in, you can smell the fresh ground coffee in the air and the first sip tastes just as good as the last! We can relax on their warm comfy couches and continue our conversation there.” Isn’t that better than “You got to meet me up for coffee sometime”?

So when you ground the number close with a day two, or get her to extract with you, I found it most successful when I anchor some positive emotions and senses. It also greatly minimizes my flaking.

Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.



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~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
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