Thoughts on Women and Social Value

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Value and Attraction....Another way to look at it!

Imagine a high school cheerleader who was told by 3 guys that they have a crush on her. A dorky guy, an average guy, and a jock.

She would never consider the dorky guy since he has no value to her. For example, he doesn't fit in the socially acceptable norms of fashion and is usually socially awkward. So for her to date him will take away value from her. Since social value is extremely important to women, she will rule him out as a potential mate.

The average guy, may fit in, but unless he stands out someway in personality, or is a PUA, he probably will not add much value to her. Therefore, unless he games hard or has a lot of game time with her, she won't feel attracted to him. He also has a high risk of be LJBF'd.
Now the jock, when he tells her he likes her, she puts on her relationship consideration glasses and gets almost instant attraction. That's because he is what to be considered as someone of high value in her high school world. Therefore, being his mate will allow her to inherit and combine those values with hers.

So when value is already established, attraction happens really quickly, but only if you take advantage of the small window. If not, you will be thrown into the friend zone. That's why SOI and escalations are key, but it needs to be done at the right times.
How this translates into pickup is this. When you meet someone, and you establish value, it builds attraction. But it is just general platonic attraction until you provide an SOI at the right times when you feel that the general attraction is at it's peak. Then an SOI at this point will open the flood gates to having rapid attraction. I noticed personally, after my debriefs with my girls, that they realized they were attracted when I gave me IOI's or SOI's. When someone of high value is intested in you, you are naturally more attracted to them. Especially if their value is of important to you.

It's when the jock tells the cheerleader he likes her. Value is already there. If she pairs up with him, she will have instant value transfer which builds instant attraction. You can imagine how many times the cheerleader screams and yells with excitment when she finds out the jock likes her rather than cringe with disgust when she finds out the geek likes her. See the difference? Value vs no value. Value and attraction goes hand in hand. Value has to be there before there could be any attraction. Period!

Some key points about value is that value could be subjective. A person who can dances will have value to someone who admires dancing, but has no value to someone who doesn't care for dancing. So it's good to have general DHV's that spans a broad range of subjects. But there are certain core values that are attractive to most people. Like for instance having positive energy.
People naturally gravitate to things that makes them feel good. Someone who is positive and brings positive energy is of value to everyone. That's why when you open a set and you need to demonstrate value, a quick and easy way to do is just be positive and have positive energy. That saying that goes "Enter the set with a energy level at least the same if not higher than the set" reflects the value of positive energy and demonstrates value greatly. This is sometimes known as "The Vibe"

~Quality
Asian Playboy Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
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"The Asian Playboy voted World's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" - 2007 PUA Summit

LR: A Classic Misadventure

So I’m in Vegas helping APB with the group boot camp this past weekend when an ABC Coach (Oz) was in a two set. APB told me to help wing. Came in with indirect BL, ignored the girls and told Oz, “Hey Oz! Everyone is going to get drinks at the bar, do you want anything?” He replies, “No I’m good bro! But hey let me introduce you to some new friends of mine.” After I was introduced, he BLP’ed himself to do a mini isolation with his target while I was keeping HBMilf occupied. After a few minutes, I used my Patented Quality’s Palm reading gambit to initiate Kino and to further isolate and have better BL positioning. After another 10 minutes, Oz’s target suggests we go to dance on the dance floor. I agreed, just to pace her but knew that it wouldn’t progress the sarge since it won’t fully allow for isolate of her and her friend if I went with them. So I suggested they go on the dance floor first while I introduce her to the APB team members and told her to come with me to get another drink. (That’s solid wing action, if I do say so myself! J I normally go solo so winging isn’t my forte but as you can see, I’m able to hold my own!!!)

So as we are standing at the bar, I used HBMilf as a pivot and saw a mixed 3 set. It was obvious that my target, HBVenezuela wasn’t having fun and her friends were a couple having serious drama! So brought her in the conversation and had immediate attraction and rapport since I teach salsa and admire the Latin culture. Furthermore, she is attracted to Asians and I was charming her with my limited Spanish I know. Did some dance moves with some heavy Kino which includes ass grabbing. Her friends got into a fight with each other and pulled her away. HBMilf got jealous and pulled me back to an outdoor table. It was on! She was rubbing my inner thigh while talking about heavy sexual topics and qualifying herself as being a fun, party girl who loves sex etc. About to go in for a kiss close but her friend came back with Oz to check up. (More good wing action) After she got the thumbs up, it allowed for Oz to even further isolate even more since she knew her friend was okay. Our sexual state broke and we were running low on drinks so we got another one.

Came back to the bar, and HBVenezuela and her female friend were there. Apparently her friend got into a huge fight with her man so there was drama! She came up and gave me a big hug and started dancing/grinding on me. She kept saying she didn’t want to be there but she was glad she came since she got to meet me. More dancing in front of HBMilf while she was buying me drinks and HBVenezuela complies with my forehead and nose Kino then grabbed my crotch…..It’s on!!! Two birds in one hand….. What to do…. What to do…. One is already isolate, the other isn’t. Dang!!! Why am I always more attracted to the harder one!! APB’s quote ”Logistics gets you laid” is running through my head.”

Her friend decided to go find her BF and dragged HBVenezuela with her. Apprently HBMilf saw the crotch grabbing and got jealous so wanted to go find her friend on the dance floor instead of isolating herself back to the table we were at. So we went to the dance floor and I made some excuse to use the restroom to plan out logistics. After coming out I see HBMilf on the edge of the dance floor waiting for me, and HBVenezuela on the left near the bar BY HERSELF!!! BINGO!!!!

Walked over to the bar, with a little swagger, and she said her friend got into a fight with her also and left her. She wanted to leave but came with both of her friends and didn’t want to get a taxi by herself. Reached out my hand, and said “Come on baby! You’ll roll with me!!” Walked out of the club while ducking as I saw HBMilf in my peripherals looking for me. Walked her to the taxi stand and waited in line with her when I ask her where she was staying. “Bellagio”….. “Dang girl! There is this bad ass noodle place there! You are tempting me….” Lead her into the back seat of the cab, one hand on the door, the other on the roof of the cab, and said “You know what?!?!” Thought about it for a second to make it seem spontaneous…. “Move over!!!” Hopped in the taxi and drove to Bellagio. Started to make out, then pulled back. Ran some Patented APB Pre-LMR techniques and some of my own. Told her I had to take a piss so let’s swing by her room first. Made out in the elevator. Got into her room. Pulled her in close. Made out some more. Slammed her against the door. Neck biting. Hair pulling. Off came the shirt and pants. Picked her up and threw her on the bed. Started making out and kissed her from the neck down to her tummy. Got to the panty line when I experienced a gush of fowl fishy smell! (My biggest turn off) NOOOOOOO!!!! Say it isn’t so!!! There goes my hard on!!! Pulled off the panties anyways. Her cooch was not shaven and had stubble on her legs and butt! (My second biggest turn off) An hour and a half later of trying. I knew that it ain’t gonna happen. Quality’s junior came back into its protective cocoon!! I guess it wasn’t in the mood for fish!!! :D

So I get half dressed when the door opens and her friend comes in screaming and yelling say stuff like “I looked everywhere for you!!! Where the hell were you?!” “I just broke up with my BF and you just left me hanging!!!” and HBVenezuela is yelling back “Why did you leave me there! You know I didn’t want to go. I came for you… etc”

Standing there with my jeans and shoes in hand, I thought to myself “This is probably my cue to exit”. So I ran out the room and put the rest of my clothes on in the hallway. I said to myself “What just happened?!” “Damn that was Drama!” “Serious Drama!”

Went downstairs. Didn’t go to the noodle place since I lost my appetite with the whole fishy smell. Saw a roulette table. Put $100 on black! Damn a happy ending after all!!!

~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
Quality@abcofattraction.com