Here it goes gentlemen! Below is the complete outline of the system I used to result in 100% closes and blast through LMR. It has not only yielded many successes for myself but, if implemented correctly, has proven effect in deflowering virgins and very sexually conservative and reserved girls. It has also helped many other men to blast through LMR and even lose their virginity. This knowledge is very powerful gentlemen. With great power comes great responsibility. So use it wisely and have fun. I want pictures and footage in return! :D
The Right Mindset
Assuming that you got logistics in line and have some sexual tension/framing, you should start with the pre-emptive LMR techniques. Remember, all of this is done under the frame of “I am an extremely sexual but not needy confident man and I will give her the best sex in her life. I know she wants me bad, but she is only putting up resistance to not be seen as a slut and no matter what she says or does, deep down, she wants sex more than I do and deeply desires a man who understands that and brings it out of her.” This frame is crucial and extremely important for this to work and have consistent successes. Remember, it’s the man’s responsibility to escalate and the women’s responsibility to resist. There have been numerous occasions after I bagged a woman that gave me 20 rounds of LMR and all the excuses in the book, resisting everything from the kiss close to the anal close, that she wishes all men understood women’s sexuality and persisted a little more rather than be such wusses but at the same time, not make her feel like a slut and let the responsibility fall on the guy’s hands.
The LMR War
I like to see LMR as war. It is a battle of who has the strongest frame/mindset that wins. Now with any battle the one that comes in the most prepared will have the greater advantage. So mastering these LMR tactics and techniques will definitely add arsenal to your artillery.
The famous quote “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” could be related by the better your pre-emptive LMR is, the less battle field arsenal you will have to use. In any war, the battle should be easy. It shouldn’t be hard. What is hard is the preparation, practice and training. The preliminary work. The better you train before the fight, the easier the fight will be. So gentlemen, master the pre-emptive LMR techniques.
Women’s Arousal and Inhibition Ratio
Whether you have sex or get into an LMR Battle with her comes down to two factors, how arousable she is and how high her inhibitions are. Say on a scale from 1-10 (10 being highest) she has a 1 arousability factor and a 10 inhibition factor, then be prepared to go through 100 rounds of LMR with a side of blue balls. But if she has an arousability of 7 and inhibition of 5, giving her a drink will drop the inhibitions a few notches and makes it easier to dip your spring roll inside her extra fishy fish sauce. The Quality’s Pre-Emptive LMR Technique below will allow for both. It will arouse her conscious and subconscious and disarm her inhibitions which, if done properly, will provide a great chance for success. So keep this ratio in mind when you are gaming a girl.
Pre-Emptive LMR
-Happiest when she follows her heart
-What happens tonight will be my fault, what doesn’t happen will be yours
-Future projections and pair bonding
-Live in the moment and don’t hesitate when it feels right
-Style’s 100% Perfect Girl story
-Quality’s Soulmate Routine (Check out blog for more details)
-Biggest regrets in life are the things that you could have done but did not do
-That you never kiss and tell
-Strawberry Fields (Captain Jack has a money version of this captainjackpua.blogspot.com)
-That you are not psycho and will not stalk her
-That you won’t judge her
-That her sleeping with you will not jeopardize her chances of a relationship with you
-That you desire a woman who is sexual and not a prude. And you are turned off of sexual prudes
-That you encourage and embrace a women’s sexuality because of how important it is in life
-Quality’s Dining experience routine (Sexual NLP routine) (Check out blog for more details)
-Riker’s 3 rules
-Always use protection and practice safe sex
-It’s gotta be mutual
-It’s gotta be something you won’t regret but are happy with
Battle field LMR
Psychological
-Dirty talk (Whisper in her ears. Deep, slow, airy voice)
-Moaning and groaning
-Describe how she/you feel/smell/look
-How sexy/beautiful/hot she is
-How much you/her wants it
-How good it feels to you/her
-How turned on/horny you/her is
-Positive reward when she complies or does something you like
-Role Playing
-How bad/naughty she is
-Little sex slave routine
-Little girl
-Role Reversal
-We shouldn’t be doing this
-This is so bad
-We need to stop/slow down
-I want you to respect me in the morning
-Handling resistance
-Pace and lead
-Agree and reframe
-Freeze outs
Physical
-Dominance
-APB’s Hot/Cold
-Quality’s Sexual Tension and Dominance combo (Check out blog for more details)
-Quality’s Sexual Escalation Ladder (Check out blog for more details)
-Quality’s concept of Escalation stimulation (Check out blog for more details)
-Quality’s concept of Escalation softeners (Check out blog for more details)
-Sexual kissing/foreplay
-Licking/biting/sucking
-Face/ear/neck/back of head
-Body –Frontal
-Body –Back
-Erogenous zones –How to stimulate
-Dry humping
-Quality’s Pants LMR Technique (Check out blog for more details)
-Quality’s Bra LMR Technique (Check out blog for more details)
-Oral sex over the panties
-Quality’s Vaginal fingering technique (Check out blog for more details)
-Oral sex
-Masterbate in front of her
Post sex follow-up
Emotional talk/positive appreciation and encouragement
Warm towel cleanup
Future Projection/Pair bonding
Next day follow-up text/call
Feel free to ask me any questions and visit my blog (qualitypua.blogspot.com) for updates and clarification. I also offer phone consultation if you want me explain or elaborate the techniques and how to apply it. If you are an APB Alumni, ask for the Discounted Alumni Rate.
~Quality - Asian Playboy Intern Instructor
ABC of Attraction
quality@abcofattraction.com
Friday, November 30, 2007
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Quality's Phone Consultation Testimonial
Phone Consultation Testimonial from Student from New York:
All I have to say is that the phone consultation is something that really sets APB’s bootcamp apart from all those other programs out there. I mean, who else is going to give you that kind of personalized attention before you even start the program? And Quality is one of the wisest guys out there when it comes to this stuff. He was able to answer any question I could think of. Thing is- he actually cares to answer your questions- it’s not like he’s just waiting for the time to run out.
Getting to the actual phone call- Quality is a cool bro who really takes the time to assess where you’re at and what areas you might need help in. It started off as a sort of diagnostic where Quality asked what my sticking points were and where I might need some help. I mentioned that I was new to the community, so he basically had to go through everything with me. He really took the time to go through the ABC’s of Attraction system with me step by step, which was helpful going into the bootcamp because it gave me an overview of what I was going to learn and how everything fit together. It also allowed me to see where I might need to spend my time going over sticking points.
For me specifically, escalation and closing are especially difficult. Quality was able to show me a few pointers and techniques to really escalate the kino and finally extract the girls.
My phone call went over an hour, and Quality really took the time to answer my questions. I was only able to do one day of the bootcamp this time, but the personal attention I got from the coaches, starting with the phone consultation, was one of the main reasons for signing up IMMEDIATELY to do the next bootcamp.
I had to give a shout out to Quality for the awesome advice and attention- sorry this report is coming so late bro!
All I have to say is that the phone consultation is something that really sets APB’s bootcamp apart from all those other programs out there. I mean, who else is going to give you that kind of personalized attention before you even start the program? And Quality is one of the wisest guys out there when it comes to this stuff. He was able to answer any question I could think of. Thing is- he actually cares to answer your questions- it’s not like he’s just waiting for the time to run out.
Getting to the actual phone call- Quality is a cool bro who really takes the time to assess where you’re at and what areas you might need help in. It started off as a sort of diagnostic where Quality asked what my sticking points were and where I might need some help. I mentioned that I was new to the community, so he basically had to go through everything with me. He really took the time to go through the ABC’s of Attraction system with me step by step, which was helpful going into the bootcamp because it gave me an overview of what I was going to learn and how everything fit together. It also allowed me to see where I might need to spend my time going over sticking points.
For me specifically, escalation and closing are especially difficult. Quality was able to show me a few pointers and techniques to really escalate the kino and finally extract the girls.
My phone call went over an hour, and Quality really took the time to answer my questions. I was only able to do one day of the bootcamp this time, but the personal attention I got from the coaches, starting with the phone consultation, was one of the main reasons for signing up IMMEDIATELY to do the next bootcamp.
I had to give a shout out to Quality for the awesome advice and attention- sorry this report is coming so late bro!
Friday, October 19, 2007
Having Approach Standards!!!
We have heard over and over again that qualification is the key to getting the girl. Qualifying her with your standards will filter out the ones that are worth your time, energy and efforts.
Women with traits like passion, class, care, beauty, etc is desired by all. Importance of these traits can vary from one person to another. If we were to have standards for women we date, which we should be qualifying them by, shouldn’t we be doing that to the people we talk to as well? If they don’t meet our standards during the initial conversation, it is a very slim chance that they will meet our standards for relationships.
The worst thing is to try to plow and take abuse, resistance or objects from someone who is not worth our time. Too much of these encounters will definitely take its toll on our inner game. This doesn’t mean we eject after she presents a little resistance either. When you know you did all that you can and she still has resistance, it maybe a good idea to cut your losses and move on. I notice when I call a women out for their bad behavior, and her initial impression was bad, it gets her to reopen me later. Saying things like “I was just being social and having some fun; but if you can’t be friendly than I’ll just get back to my friends. It was a pleasure.”
When I do an approach, I go in with a frame that I am probably the most interesting person that she will ever meet. My personal goal in life is to leave everyone better than I found them. And if she passes my prescreening, then she has more game time with me to discover how awesome of a person I am. If she doesn’t meet my standards in a person I converse with, then I don’t want her in my life. I do however give her several chances (by plowing) and if she still doesn’t see it, then it’s her lost. With that frame, you could easily brush off any rejection or non compliance and find someone else who will appreciate who you are. What are my standards?
1. Someone who is positive and friendly
2. Someone who has a good sense of humor and knows how to laugh.
3. Someone who is polite and have manners.
4. Someone who can communicate and carry a conversation.
Women prescreen us in so many ways during the initial conversation and throughout. But part of being the prize is to take the controls, prescreen and qualify them before they do you. That’s why having standards not only with the women you date, but with the women you choose to talk to will make you more congruent to being someone of higher value and someone who truly is the prize.
Quality – Asian Playboy Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
qualitypua.blogspot.com
quality@abcofattraction.com
“The Asian Playboy voted World’s Greatest Asian Pickup Artist” – 2007 PUA Summit
Women with traits like passion, class, care, beauty, etc is desired by all. Importance of these traits can vary from one person to another. If we were to have standards for women we date, which we should be qualifying them by, shouldn’t we be doing that to the people we talk to as well? If they don’t meet our standards during the initial conversation, it is a very slim chance that they will meet our standards for relationships.
The worst thing is to try to plow and take abuse, resistance or objects from someone who is not worth our time. Too much of these encounters will definitely take its toll on our inner game. This doesn’t mean we eject after she presents a little resistance either. When you know you did all that you can and she still has resistance, it maybe a good idea to cut your losses and move on. I notice when I call a women out for their bad behavior, and her initial impression was bad, it gets her to reopen me later. Saying things like “I was just being social and having some fun; but if you can’t be friendly than I’ll just get back to my friends. It was a pleasure.”
When I do an approach, I go in with a frame that I am probably the most interesting person that she will ever meet. My personal goal in life is to leave everyone better than I found them. And if she passes my prescreening, then she has more game time with me to discover how awesome of a person I am. If she doesn’t meet my standards in a person I converse with, then I don’t want her in my life. I do however give her several chances (by plowing) and if she still doesn’t see it, then it’s her lost. With that frame, you could easily brush off any rejection or non compliance and find someone else who will appreciate who you are. What are my standards?
1. Someone who is positive and friendly
2. Someone who has a good sense of humor and knows how to laugh.
3. Someone who is polite and have manners.
4. Someone who can communicate and carry a conversation.
Women prescreen us in so many ways during the initial conversation and throughout. But part of being the prize is to take the controls, prescreen and qualify them before they do you. That’s why having standards not only with the women you date, but with the women you choose to talk to will make you more congruent to being someone of higher value and someone who truly is the prize.
Quality – Asian Playboy Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
qualitypua.blogspot.com
quality@abcofattraction.com
“The Asian Playboy voted World’s Greatest Asian Pickup Artist” – 2007 PUA Summit
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Student DHV Story Critique
Hi Quality et. al,
On our phone consultation, you said I should do some preparation before heading out to Vegas on Nov 2nd. A big part of it was creating material for stories. Well, here's what I came up with. I'm not quite sure how I can turn everything into DHV, how much of it is interesting, or how to put it all together to make it flow. But this is the kind of stuff that interests me and what a big part of my life is about or just interesting stuff that happened in my life. As you suggested, these are just bullet points. I could talk for hours on the stuff below and I have before. But not everyone finds it interesting. Some people find it very interesting. Others would be bored.
Leon,
Good job on the prompt response. One more thing that I would like for you to do is put the attraction switch label on each story and tell me when you think each story is best told. I.e. Attraction, Comfort, etc since you weren't too familiar with the attraction switches. This will get you in the habit of being able to identify your stories with the attraction switches and when to tell them.
Also, some of the stories are kind of dry and will need revamping. We will work on these in the bootcamp. Delivery is also key! I will break down each story if I can find the time. Here is an example of one.... Putting in all the work before the bootcamp will definately pay off when you are in the field!
Quote:
Story 4 - Cycling
- After the .com bust, I quit my job and started living the lifestyle of a pro cyclist for almost 4 years. I did well enough during the .com boom to afford to do this. It's not as glamours as it sounds. Basically eat, sleep, train, repeat. Never got to be as fast as the Pro's, but I got pretty damm fast. I could get a top 20 finish in some of the largest amateur races in my category and often won/placed in local races. Traveled around the northeast doing some of the biggest amateur races in the region. I did this to see how far I push my body physically.
Pluses
* Shows that you made good money before.
* Adventurous and bold enough to jump careers
* Shows Passion and Drive
* Lots of travels and experiences
Minus
* May comes off as bragging or trying too hard.
* Doesn't promote emotions
* Is not interesting to someone who doesn't have a passion for biking
* Hard to relate
* Dry
Suggestions
Tell a story and evoke a lot of emotions. Maybe put down a big race and how nervous you felt. Maybe say at one point you thought about quitting but pushed yourself hard from inside and because of that, was able to place in the top 20. Add twists and turns in the story. Say that someone bumped into you and made you fall loosing precious time. Add more conflict by shows that you injured your leg on the fall and wanted to quit etc. And tell her how it felt to finally cross the finish line. and what a feeling of accomplishment it was. Tell her how your friends were there cheering for you and how they all hugged you at the end and lifted you up on their shoulders to parade. Say one of your home girls handed you some flowers. Get the picture? Just adding these elements into your story makes it a much more interesting story. Add a punch line or moral to the story. I.e. "And I realized that no matter how tough it gets, I'm a fighter inside and my heart will never forgive me if I ever quit" etc.
~Quality - Asian Playboy Intern Instructor
ABC of Attraction
qualitypua.blogspot.com
On our phone consultation, you said I should do some preparation before heading out to Vegas on Nov 2nd. A big part of it was creating material for stories. Well, here's what I came up with. I'm not quite sure how I can turn everything into DHV, how much of it is interesting, or how to put it all together to make it flow. But this is the kind of stuff that interests me and what a big part of my life is about or just interesting stuff that happened in my life. As you suggested, these are just bullet points. I could talk for hours on the stuff below and I have before. But not everyone finds it interesting. Some people find it very interesting. Others would be bored.
Leon,
Good job on the prompt response. One more thing that I would like for you to do is put the attraction switch label on each story and tell me when you think each story is best told. I.e. Attraction, Comfort, etc since you weren't too familiar with the attraction switches. This will get you in the habit of being able to identify your stories with the attraction switches and when to tell them.
Also, some of the stories are kind of dry and will need revamping. We will work on these in the bootcamp. Delivery is also key! I will break down each story if I can find the time. Here is an example of one.... Putting in all the work before the bootcamp will definately pay off when you are in the field!
Quote:
Story 4 - Cycling
- After the .com bust, I quit my job and started living the lifestyle of a pro cyclist for almost 4 years. I did well enough during the .com boom to afford to do this. It's not as glamours as it sounds. Basically eat, sleep, train, repeat. Never got to be as fast as the Pro's, but I got pretty damm fast. I could get a top 20 finish in some of the largest amateur races in my category and often won/placed in local races. Traveled around the northeast doing some of the biggest amateur races in the region. I did this to see how far I push my body physically.
Pluses
* Shows that you made good money before.
* Adventurous and bold enough to jump careers
* Shows Passion and Drive
* Lots of travels and experiences
Minus
* May comes off as bragging or trying too hard.
* Doesn't promote emotions
* Is not interesting to someone who doesn't have a passion for biking
* Hard to relate
* Dry
Suggestions
Tell a story and evoke a lot of emotions. Maybe put down a big race and how nervous you felt. Maybe say at one point you thought about quitting but pushed yourself hard from inside and because of that, was able to place in the top 20. Add twists and turns in the story. Say that someone bumped into you and made you fall loosing precious time. Add more conflict by shows that you injured your leg on the fall and wanted to quit etc. And tell her how it felt to finally cross the finish line. and what a feeling of accomplishment it was. Tell her how your friends were there cheering for you and how they all hugged you at the end and lifted you up on their shoulders to parade. Say one of your home girls handed you some flowers. Get the picture? Just adding these elements into your story makes it a much more interesting story. Add a punch line or moral to the story. I.e. "And I realized that no matter how tough it gets, I'm a fighter inside and my heart will never forgive me if I ever quit" etc.
~Quality - Asian Playboy Intern Instructor
ABC of Attraction
qualitypua.blogspot.com
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Phone Testimonial by Playa
So I was feeling bummed out after my first phone consult cos well, I realised I sucked big time ... I was discouraged and wanted to pull out ... I was wallowing in my self pity and nursing my inner wuss ... But something happened ...
I was queueing up to board the bus when this white woman in her 30s-40s comes up beside me, literally pushes me away and cuts me ... I was like WTF ... so I board the bus fuming cos like that was so just plain rude ... I sat down and I was pissed but didn't wanna say anything ... then I remembered Quality's words ... You sound like a real timid guy, a real nice guy and you let people step over you all the time ....
That hit me real hard at that time and I was like ... No, I am not going to accept 2nd rate behavior from others .... I walked over to her and I looked her straight in the eye and said "Hey, you know what, the way you pushed me just now, it was not too nice" ... then she mumbled something in a soft voice and I just walked away ... I knew she understood where I was coming from .... Quality later told me what I said was rude and I could have said it in a more social way but he was glad I stood up for myself ...
After that I was on fire ... I'm not really sure if timid is the right word to describe me but yes I am nice ... way too nice .... and that's why I developed a real tough exterior ... I'm from Singapore and I'm kinda rough on the edges ... but unfortunately, my "toughness" constantly makes me come off as rude and standoffish in the American culture ... it's an overcompensation ... when I learnt about David D's cocky and funny ... I just ended up being cocky ... not really funny ... so I became this arrogant prick but well many girls in Singapore loved it and of course I bombed big time in America cos I mistook what I experienced back home for real success ...
I don't wanna be an arrogant prick ... I just wanna be badass ...
So when Quality found out I was discouraged, he contacted me and this guy is the best ... he is like the big bro I never had and I really look up to him ... He encouraged me and helped me along ... I'm a newbie ... like seriously new and well maybe you say that well it's cos I paid for the bootcamp that's why he's so nice to me ... maybe, but look ... money doesn't buy you everything ... I don't think he earns much from this and he could have just said, this guy is a whiney loser let's give him his money back and let him wallow in his self pity ... they probably could have found someone else to take the bc in my place and saved them the agony of helping a newbie out but Quality didn't ... He didn't give up on me ...
The guys at APB, they are real brothers ... I PMed Mack, Gatsby and Jewelz when I felt like shit and they replied ... which other community do you get people this tight? Bear in mind, they haven't even met me yet ...
You guys rock!
_________________
Playa
Brick walls are there for you to show your dedication .....
I was queueing up to board the bus when this white woman in her 30s-40s comes up beside me, literally pushes me away and cuts me ... I was like WTF ... so I board the bus fuming cos like that was so just plain rude ... I sat down and I was pissed but didn't wanna say anything ... then I remembered Quality's words ... You sound like a real timid guy, a real nice guy and you let people step over you all the time ....
That hit me real hard at that time and I was like ... No, I am not going to accept 2nd rate behavior from others .... I walked over to her and I looked her straight in the eye and said "Hey, you know what, the way you pushed me just now, it was not too nice" ... then she mumbled something in a soft voice and I just walked away ... I knew she understood where I was coming from .... Quality later told me what I said was rude and I could have said it in a more social way but he was glad I stood up for myself ...
After that I was on fire ... I'm not really sure if timid is the right word to describe me but yes I am nice ... way too nice .... and that's why I developed a real tough exterior ... I'm from Singapore and I'm kinda rough on the edges ... but unfortunately, my "toughness" constantly makes me come off as rude and standoffish in the American culture ... it's an overcompensation ... when I learnt about David D's cocky and funny ... I just ended up being cocky ... not really funny ... so I became this arrogant prick but well many girls in Singapore loved it and of course I bombed big time in America cos I mistook what I experienced back home for real success ...
I don't wanna be an arrogant prick ... I just wanna be badass ...
So when Quality found out I was discouraged, he contacted me and this guy is the best ... he is like the big bro I never had and I really look up to him ... He encouraged me and helped me along ... I'm a newbie ... like seriously new and well maybe you say that well it's cos I paid for the bootcamp that's why he's so nice to me ... maybe, but look ... money doesn't buy you everything ... I don't think he earns much from this and he could have just said, this guy is a whiney loser let's give him his money back and let him wallow in his self pity ... they probably could have found someone else to take the bc in my place and saved them the agony of helping a newbie out but Quality didn't ... He didn't give up on me ...
The guys at APB, they are real brothers ... I PMed Mack, Gatsby and Jewelz when I felt like shit and they replied ... which other community do you get people this tight? Bear in mind, they haven't even met me yet ...
You guys rock!
_________________
Playa
Brick walls are there for you to show your dedication .....
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Value and Attraction....Another way to look at it!
Imagine a high school cheerleader who was told by 3 guys that they have a crush on her. A dorky guy, an average guy, and a jock.
She would never consider the dorky guy since he has no value to her. For example, he doesn't fit in the socially acceptable norms of fashion and is usually socially awkward. So for her to date him will take away value from her. Since social value is extremely important to women, she will rule him out as a potential mate.
The average guy, may fit in, but unless he stands out someway in personality, or is a PUA, he probably will not add much value to her. Therefore, unless he games hard or has a lot of game time with her, she won't feel attracted to him. He also has a high risk of be LJBF'd.
Now the jock, when he tells her he likes her, she puts on her relationship consideration glasses and gets almost instant attraction. That's because he is what to be considered as someone of high value in her high school world. Therefore, being his mate will allow her to inherit and combine those values with hers.
So when value is already established, attraction happens really quickly, but only if you take advantage of the small window. If not, you will be thrown into the friend zone. That's why SOI and escalations are key, but it needs to be done at the right times.
How this translates into pickup is this. When you meet someone, and you establish value, it builds attraction. But it is just general platonic attraction until you provide an SOI at the right times when you feel that the general attraction is at it's peak. Then an SOI at this point will open the flood gates to having rapid attraction. I noticed personally, after my debriefs with my girls, that they realized they were attracted when I gave me IOI's or SOI's. When someone of high value is intested in you, you are naturally more attracted to them. Especially if their value is of important to you.
It's when the jock tells the cheerleader he likes her. Value is already there. If she pairs up with him, she will have instant value transfer which builds instant attraction. You can imagine how many times the cheerleader screams and yells with excitment when she finds out the jock likes her rather than cringe with disgust when she finds out the geek likes her. See the difference? Value vs no value. Value and attraction goes hand in hand. Value has to be there before there could be any attraction. Period!
Some key points about value is that value could be subjective. A person who can dances will have value to someone who admires dancing, but has no value to someone who doesn't care for dancing. So it's good to have general DHV's that spans a broad range of subjects. But there are certain core values that are attractive to most people. Like for instance having positive energy.
People naturally gravitate to things that makes them feel good. Someone who is positive and brings positive energy is of value to everyone. That's why when you open a set and you need to demonstrate value, a quick and easy way to do is just be positive and have positive energy. That saying that goes "Enter the set with a energy level at least the same if not higher than the set" reflects the value of positive energy and demonstrates value greatly. This is sometimes known as "The Vibe"
~Quality
Asian Playboy Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
abcofattraction.com
qualitypua.blogspot.com
"The Asian Playboy voted World's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" - 2007 PUA Summit
She would never consider the dorky guy since he has no value to her. For example, he doesn't fit in the socially acceptable norms of fashion and is usually socially awkward. So for her to date him will take away value from her. Since social value is extremely important to women, she will rule him out as a potential mate.
The average guy, may fit in, but unless he stands out someway in personality, or is a PUA, he probably will not add much value to her. Therefore, unless he games hard or has a lot of game time with her, she won't feel attracted to him. He also has a high risk of be LJBF'd.
Now the jock, when he tells her he likes her, she puts on her relationship consideration glasses and gets almost instant attraction. That's because he is what to be considered as someone of high value in her high school world. Therefore, being his mate will allow her to inherit and combine those values with hers.
So when value is already established, attraction happens really quickly, but only if you take advantage of the small window. If not, you will be thrown into the friend zone. That's why SOI and escalations are key, but it needs to be done at the right times.
How this translates into pickup is this. When you meet someone, and you establish value, it builds attraction. But it is just general platonic attraction until you provide an SOI at the right times when you feel that the general attraction is at it's peak. Then an SOI at this point will open the flood gates to having rapid attraction. I noticed personally, after my debriefs with my girls, that they realized they were attracted when I gave me IOI's or SOI's. When someone of high value is intested in you, you are naturally more attracted to them. Especially if their value is of important to you.
It's when the jock tells the cheerleader he likes her. Value is already there. If she pairs up with him, she will have instant value transfer which builds instant attraction. You can imagine how many times the cheerleader screams and yells with excitment when she finds out the jock likes her rather than cringe with disgust when she finds out the geek likes her. See the difference? Value vs no value. Value and attraction goes hand in hand. Value has to be there before there could be any attraction. Period!
Some key points about value is that value could be subjective. A person who can dances will have value to someone who admires dancing, but has no value to someone who doesn't care for dancing. So it's good to have general DHV's that spans a broad range of subjects. But there are certain core values that are attractive to most people. Like for instance having positive energy.
People naturally gravitate to things that makes them feel good. Someone who is positive and brings positive energy is of value to everyone. That's why when you open a set and you need to demonstrate value, a quick and easy way to do is just be positive and have positive energy. That saying that goes "Enter the set with a energy level at least the same if not higher than the set" reflects the value of positive energy and demonstrates value greatly. This is sometimes known as "The Vibe"
~Quality
Asian Playboy Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
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"The Asian Playboy voted World's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" - 2007 PUA Summit
Monday, October 8, 2007
Bootcamp Testimonial by Mack
The Lowdown on the Hoedown: an honest look at an ABC’s of attraction bootcamp
What to say about a bootcamp that is so all encompassing and so encouraging? I’ll just start at the beginning. We all have our AFC stories, I mean without them we’d never have gotten our rears in gear to learn this, so be grateful.
The coaches were so down to earth and understand you at such a deep level. They’re some of the coolest people, as well as well as some of the greatest pickup artists.
They’re going to lead the revolution of the minorities, particularly the Asians. They’re going to be unstoppable in the next few years. APB and the crew have the potential to shape a new generation of Asians and defeat the blocker mindset which has held us Asians back for so many years. Just as Martin Luther King Jr. stood in the face of racism and tyranny, so APB stands in the face of people not getting laid. Destroyer of frustrations and masturbations. Conqueror of fear and approach anxiety.
This weekend has been a blast, the crew loves what they do, and they are frikin awesome at it. Qual was the caring alpha, sociable, one of a kind DHV man, one of the coolest people to be with and hang with. Toy Machine, the low key, bad boy type, with heart. Jewelz, the Vegas socialite to end all socialites with the charisma and charm of a seductress and the flirtyness of a carefree school girl she demolished all competition. Ozzy, the bubble of positivity and joy. Seeing him light up when talking about all that we’re doing and working on, filled my heart with happiness. Johnny Wolf. Big buff asian dude, who becomes more and more of a pimp as time goes on. And The Asian Playboy. Suave, charismatic, enigmatic, godfather of the ABC’s of attraction. With such a command of his body, and tonality, and expressions, and naturalness, you’d think that you were in a movie if you saw him at work. His nature is to help and lead, but he’s no businessman, but that is exactly what makes him so special and different. I wouldn’t have traded this bootcamp experience for the world. Growing up I didn’t have much sense of brotherhood, and being the youngest in my entire family and being raised by women didn’t help either. Once you take a bootcamp, you are part of something. The fraternity, the brotherhood, the family. You are one of APB’s own, and as brothers (or sisters aka Jewelz…) you are not alone in this world. Even though the road to pickup is hard, and filled with pitfalls and heartaches with APB, you become family.
and, I still owe APB $20 for club cover and some other shit.
First Day, well we had sort of an advantage of having an extra day, but I was still a little shy. It was my first time in Vegas, I even opened up a new bank account and started transferring bits of money so I could sneak by and come to Vegas without my parents knowing. And so I was a little star struck. My first time in Vegas and I’ll be picking up chicks, nice. I walk up to the cantina, and I’m a little scared, I phone Jewelz, she shows up right behind me and freaks me out. We go into the restaurant. And there he is APB. I’m a little surprised. I don’t know how to handle the situation; he was just sitting there, not picking up chicks… that’s weird… I thought we’re supposed to be picking up 24/7… so then all the others arrive. Sight, Yellowcab, Sexual chocolate, Ozzy, Johnny, Adamm, Rumble… my two fellow bootcamp attendees. My first impression of APB was that he was like a crouching tiger, not really up to much, but I could feel his aura emanating from within. The other bootcamp attendees were all just being social and cool, while I, have trouble with that, and these guys were also like all 20yrs older than me. My first impression of sight was “huh, he’s white… and good looking too… wonder what’s up…” We hit up the voodoo club or whatever and I’m like cool, this is my second time in a club, nice… umm… what do I do? Most of the guys were just chillin and having a good time, I hear sexual chocolate got a bj, so kudos to him. I opened up a lone wolf, and with Qual’s patented surefire opener and she just like grabbed me, and I was a little confused. Ended up isolating, (took a while though) but she left later with her friend to go to the bathroom. She asked me how old I was, which, along with “Am I on camera?” would be the two lines that would haunt me for the rest of the bootcamp.
Day 1, ahh, the goodies all come out. Nice refresher of the pickup structure for me, except hearing it like really helped solidify it, but even more important is individualized attention. Really when it comes down to it going to a bootcamp vs reading/watching pickup is like the difference between watching porn and actually having sex. It helps having head knowledge, but if you don’t know where the fuck to stick it in, not much is gonna happen, even if you can draw the female anatomy blindfolded. So I learned and learned, and then they saw my emo shoes and they were like “umm… are you wearing that tonite? Okay, we need to get you some boots.” We gear up and go. I’m a little scared, but I’m getting into state. I go and approach. I hook a HB black, Johnny keeps saying she’s extremely hot, but it was so dark in there and I really wasn’t even caring what the fuck she looked like, as long as she was a woman, so I chat her up, spike buying temperature and all that, but I remained oblivious to the fact that she was lovin it and run out of material and she leaves. I approach a 3 set but then one of the girls are like “You are busted! That is so Pickup Artist! (the VH1 show, just in case any of you guys live in a cave or something lol) And I’m done. Later I approach a 2 set outside of the club, APB sends Rumble in, and he pretty much messes everything up. I get so upset I kick him in the ass, not hard, but almost like a strong tap. At this Adamm gets like all Korean father on me and starts telling me that it’s not okay and shit, and I’m like WTF man, I didn’t actually try to hurt him. I could tell from that point that we weren’t gonna really get along, actually from the first time I talked to him I could tell we weren’t gonna get along. This might be a little harsh, but after Adamms little post about APB I feel I have the right to tell my honest opinions about everything. He has quite a bit of ego, which helps in his dominating a classroom, but in a learning environment, where he is the student he seems to have a hard time. But the best part came when Rumble had two Aussie girls, so I frikin go in and wing (the right way) but end up AMOGing him a little, (I’d later learn I do that, cus of my lack of social experience and sense of family). His girl wants to take him to their room to “show him their stamp collection” and so they start to leave and I’m like “Fuck! I ain’t gonna let you have those two girls all by yourself bitch!” and I (very AFCish) tag along, and at this point, Rumble is dominating everything, but he fumbles, and we lose the two set, but it was pretty fun all in all.
Day 2Ahh, day 2. The day I pull a 40 yr old HB8 from Canada (who claimed to be 33) into her hotel room. Now because of that I’m getting really attracted to those milfs, or cougars, as some of them like to call themselves. Actually in San Fran there is a secret society of MILF pickup artists called the Mrs. Robinson society, maybe one day I’ll meet some and we’ll seduce each other haha. Anywhos, I can’t remember which day we do interactive exercises, but I feel really shy about it all, and I have a hard time improving. Adamm made the funniest improv stories and made the funniest faces in the exercises, so kudos to him for that. I was kinda stilted… but I got a little better, but the bootcamp exercises gave me a foundation for the work I need to do, so that’s great. We go to a spiffy club, lots of hot girls, and we get right to work. I have a hard time just chillin. When I went into the club, I just came to life, and I started developing my own unique body language, which Johnny would later call “very playerish” and also deem me as being “the epitomy of the social robot” but anyways, that aside, I have some fun, but I’m also a little tryhard. I open sets, some go well, others go bad. I try and stop a moving set, which fails, but it was worth a try. As I’m going through my stages of tiredness and grief at my losses, APB sends Qual in to give me personalized attention. He takes me under his wing, and gives me a shitty direct opener to use, which failed like every time, but it was still fun anyway. So I just go super direct, I use the “I think you’re beautiful” opener. By this time, it’s like 1:30 and I’m determined to not get blown out, so I approach a lone wolf, who looked really dizzy, and go direct, and even though she has distant body lang, and everything, I think “you are GOING to feel attracted to me!” and keep going, and what do you know… it worked! I pull her back into our ultra cool vip section, but bump into a big bad Mexican guy and he wants to fight or something, I try to apologize, but he I guess he no comprendo ingles, so I just kind of walk away, cus I know Qual’s got my back. I dance waaayyyy hardcore with her, basically having sex with her freaky style, but when the dance was finished, she just left. Then I realized that I failed to apply the cat string theory… I let her have too much, I was too aggressive and she realized that I wanted to have sex with her and to her, that was enough, I gave her too much and she didn’t see the point. I retreat back to our guarded fortress and plop down.
Downtrodden, confused and defeated. I look to APB for any sign of compassion, but all I get from him is “It’s 2’o clock, you’re on your own now, make something happen.” I’m like What the Fuckin Fuck! Fuck you, and I just left and angrily sought a prey. I see one! . It was a picture perfect approach. I had already social proofed the room by freaking with Jewelz and having great interactions with other people in the club. I remember seeing this really hot girl standing by the bar so I went to approach, then all of a sudden a fat fugly girl is talking to her, 2 set, then as I'm about to open ms. fugly I see this really snazzy lookin black dude in a white suit and I complement him on it, I really did think it was cool, and then he said something about seeing me in the dance floor or something and he liked me so he told me to have fun with the girl or something, then he takes the fugly, who turned out to be his girlfriend (go figure) and I open the set. I go direct, it blasts open.
I befriend yet another friend of hers and then when all is going well the fugly comes back and says that she has to go to the bathroom. Bells go off in my head and I immediately tell her that I love the way she dances, she lights up like a christmas tree and tells us to stay and that she'll be right back. Perfect. Her other friend waves me over and tells me to take good care of her friend. At this point I'm thinkin, oh yeah, I'm gettin laid tonite. I extract her, and she asks if we're coming back and I'm like hell no. But then I quickly change my answer when I see her hesitation, I tell her, yeah of course we're coming back... Everything went well, we were vibing, I read her palm in the cab and she loved it, she later told me it was completely true, which was awesome, and the cab driver even tried to read her palm after we arrived at her hotel. She was such a sweet girl, but I didn't know how to counter the LMR and the age thing, and thoughout the bootcamp I was too aggressive, need to work on my push pull... and so alarms went off in her head. So all I could do was kiss close this hottie that I pulled in less than 10 minutes from the cold approach.
Day 3: Graduation!The life of a pickup artist. Here I come. We finish up on the lectures, and we don’t go shopping because we’re all pretty well dressed. I think Adamm had the best fashion of the students. I don’t do so well. But I begin to see the matrix. I amoged WAYYY too much and these two AFC’s even called in a bouncer to tell me to leave their table cus they didn’t want to themselves, so I just leave… cus the bouncer looked like a mix between Mike Tyson and Mr. T. Opening sets was easy now. I have good attraction game at this point, but very little mid-game, probably from my lack of social experience. I didn’t make anything happen that night. This was the night I had like 2 people ask me if they were on camera. I open up a 2 set, guy and girl, the girl is a sex change surgeon and the guy is a rich hobag. I chat them up for a long time, I neg her by telling her that she’s probably a man. She later repositions herself to be close to me, but I’m tired of this shit, so I just decide to do something and I ask her me “Do you know that this guy (the afc bitch) just wants to fuck you?’ her “yeah blah blah, he’s afc”me “do you want to fuck him?”her “no blah blah”me “ then come sit with me, I have a table over there, I want to get to know you a little better”her “no blah blah (while smiling)”
Maybe I should have pulled them both… I probably have horrible verbal game, but I don’t know, I can still create attraction, but I’m just not very socially experienced, What I said might have been totally out of line, so I welcome comments, but I just started getting tired of it all… so I just left. It’s 4’o clock, Rumble could have pulled a HB9 but his sexual anxiety keeps getting the best of him. As we’re leaving the hotel, APB points to a lone wolf at the slots, so I beat Adamm to it and open the set, turns out she has a bf and he comes later on, so I leave, seeing no further progress possible. Then… ahh my turn to tell the story. I see a 2 set, I open HB7tallerthanme with direct, and she’s loving it, and as I’m about to get to my totally awesome punchline, APB tells me to leave. I go frikin alpha on him because part of me thinks it’s an amog exercise, another part of me thinks, it him testing my resolve to stay in a set, another part of me is totally confused, another part of me is listening to the pussy power asking me if he’s the boss of me and telling me to tell them what I wanted them to say. And so I’m a confused mess, then APB gives me the pizza story and then I get it and I leave. He yells and screams at me, I almost get toy machine sent to jail, I don’t know what’s going on, they’res more yelling and screaming and crying. I tear up a little bit when I can see he understands me, but then I’m encouraged as he tells me I’m going to get damn good at the game, which I’m happy about, which was also repeated by every other instructor, which cheered me up quite a bit. Then stupid Jewelz and her huge breasts breaks my sunglasses with her hug of might. I’m like WTF Jewelz! These were like $2! I say bye to the boys, I’m loving all the feedback we’re getting, it’s so important. And Qual pulled a HB to her room so I was a little jealous, but at the same time I really needed to get my ass spanked by APB.
I don’t know what the bootcamp taught anyone else, but it taught me about brotherhood, and about just socializing in general and becoming a genuine man. This is going to be a crazy year for me. I’ve been studying self help and for 1 ½ years, which led me all the way to Vegas to study with the masters, now it’s time for me to really get to work on myself. The bootcamp pushed me out of my shell, and now I’m beginning to see all that is possible in me. It gave me a pushstart for my go-cart of pickup, and for that I’ll be forever grateful. And who knows, one day I’ll drive a Lamborghini.
What to say about a bootcamp that is so all encompassing and so encouraging? I’ll just start at the beginning. We all have our AFC stories, I mean without them we’d never have gotten our rears in gear to learn this, so be grateful.
The coaches were so down to earth and understand you at such a deep level. They’re some of the coolest people, as well as well as some of the greatest pickup artists.
They’re going to lead the revolution of the minorities, particularly the Asians. They’re going to be unstoppable in the next few years. APB and the crew have the potential to shape a new generation of Asians and defeat the blocker mindset which has held us Asians back for so many years. Just as Martin Luther King Jr. stood in the face of racism and tyranny, so APB stands in the face of people not getting laid. Destroyer of frustrations and masturbations. Conqueror of fear and approach anxiety.
This weekend has been a blast, the crew loves what they do, and they are frikin awesome at it. Qual was the caring alpha, sociable, one of a kind DHV man, one of the coolest people to be with and hang with. Toy Machine, the low key, bad boy type, with heart. Jewelz, the Vegas socialite to end all socialites with the charisma and charm of a seductress and the flirtyness of a carefree school girl she demolished all competition. Ozzy, the bubble of positivity and joy. Seeing him light up when talking about all that we’re doing and working on, filled my heart with happiness. Johnny Wolf. Big buff asian dude, who becomes more and more of a pimp as time goes on. And The Asian Playboy. Suave, charismatic, enigmatic, godfather of the ABC’s of attraction. With such a command of his body, and tonality, and expressions, and naturalness, you’d think that you were in a movie if you saw him at work. His nature is to help and lead, but he’s no businessman, but that is exactly what makes him so special and different. I wouldn’t have traded this bootcamp experience for the world. Growing up I didn’t have much sense of brotherhood, and being the youngest in my entire family and being raised by women didn’t help either. Once you take a bootcamp, you are part of something. The fraternity, the brotherhood, the family. You are one of APB’s own, and as brothers (or sisters aka Jewelz…) you are not alone in this world. Even though the road to pickup is hard, and filled with pitfalls and heartaches with APB, you become family.
and, I still owe APB $20 for club cover and some other shit.
First Day, well we had sort of an advantage of having an extra day, but I was still a little shy. It was my first time in Vegas, I even opened up a new bank account and started transferring bits of money so I could sneak by and come to Vegas without my parents knowing. And so I was a little star struck. My first time in Vegas and I’ll be picking up chicks, nice. I walk up to the cantina, and I’m a little scared, I phone Jewelz, she shows up right behind me and freaks me out. We go into the restaurant. And there he is APB. I’m a little surprised. I don’t know how to handle the situation; he was just sitting there, not picking up chicks… that’s weird… I thought we’re supposed to be picking up 24/7… so then all the others arrive. Sight, Yellowcab, Sexual chocolate, Ozzy, Johnny, Adamm, Rumble… my two fellow bootcamp attendees. My first impression of APB was that he was like a crouching tiger, not really up to much, but I could feel his aura emanating from within. The other bootcamp attendees were all just being social and cool, while I, have trouble with that, and these guys were also like all 20yrs older than me. My first impression of sight was “huh, he’s white… and good looking too… wonder what’s up…” We hit up the voodoo club or whatever and I’m like cool, this is my second time in a club, nice… umm… what do I do? Most of the guys were just chillin and having a good time, I hear sexual chocolate got a bj, so kudos to him. I opened up a lone wolf, and with Qual’s patented surefire opener and she just like grabbed me, and I was a little confused. Ended up isolating, (took a while though) but she left later with her friend to go to the bathroom. She asked me how old I was, which, along with “Am I on camera?” would be the two lines that would haunt me for the rest of the bootcamp.
Day 1, ahh, the goodies all come out. Nice refresher of the pickup structure for me, except hearing it like really helped solidify it, but even more important is individualized attention. Really when it comes down to it going to a bootcamp vs reading/watching pickup is like the difference between watching porn and actually having sex. It helps having head knowledge, but if you don’t know where the fuck to stick it in, not much is gonna happen, even if you can draw the female anatomy blindfolded. So I learned and learned, and then they saw my emo shoes and they were like “umm… are you wearing that tonite? Okay, we need to get you some boots.” We gear up and go. I’m a little scared, but I’m getting into state. I go and approach. I hook a HB black, Johnny keeps saying she’s extremely hot, but it was so dark in there and I really wasn’t even caring what the fuck she looked like, as long as she was a woman, so I chat her up, spike buying temperature and all that, but I remained oblivious to the fact that she was lovin it and run out of material and she leaves. I approach a 3 set but then one of the girls are like “You are busted! That is so Pickup Artist! (the VH1 show, just in case any of you guys live in a cave or something lol) And I’m done. Later I approach a 2 set outside of the club, APB sends Rumble in, and he pretty much messes everything up. I get so upset I kick him in the ass, not hard, but almost like a strong tap. At this Adamm gets like all Korean father on me and starts telling me that it’s not okay and shit, and I’m like WTF man, I didn’t actually try to hurt him. I could tell from that point that we weren’t gonna really get along, actually from the first time I talked to him I could tell we weren’t gonna get along. This might be a little harsh, but after Adamms little post about APB I feel I have the right to tell my honest opinions about everything. He has quite a bit of ego, which helps in his dominating a classroom, but in a learning environment, where he is the student he seems to have a hard time. But the best part came when Rumble had two Aussie girls, so I frikin go in and wing (the right way) but end up AMOGing him a little, (I’d later learn I do that, cus of my lack of social experience and sense of family). His girl wants to take him to their room to “show him their stamp collection” and so they start to leave and I’m like “Fuck! I ain’t gonna let you have those two girls all by yourself bitch!” and I (very AFCish) tag along, and at this point, Rumble is dominating everything, but he fumbles, and we lose the two set, but it was pretty fun all in all.
Day 2Ahh, day 2. The day I pull a 40 yr old HB8 from Canada (who claimed to be 33) into her hotel room. Now because of that I’m getting really attracted to those milfs, or cougars, as some of them like to call themselves. Actually in San Fran there is a secret society of MILF pickup artists called the Mrs. Robinson society, maybe one day I’ll meet some and we’ll seduce each other haha. Anywhos, I can’t remember which day we do interactive exercises, but I feel really shy about it all, and I have a hard time improving. Adamm made the funniest improv stories and made the funniest faces in the exercises, so kudos to him for that. I was kinda stilted… but I got a little better, but the bootcamp exercises gave me a foundation for the work I need to do, so that’s great. We go to a spiffy club, lots of hot girls, and we get right to work. I have a hard time just chillin. When I went into the club, I just came to life, and I started developing my own unique body language, which Johnny would later call “very playerish” and also deem me as being “the epitomy of the social robot” but anyways, that aside, I have some fun, but I’m also a little tryhard. I open sets, some go well, others go bad. I try and stop a moving set, which fails, but it was worth a try. As I’m going through my stages of tiredness and grief at my losses, APB sends Qual in to give me personalized attention. He takes me under his wing, and gives me a shitty direct opener to use, which failed like every time, but it was still fun anyway. So I just go super direct, I use the “I think you’re beautiful” opener. By this time, it’s like 1:30 and I’m determined to not get blown out, so I approach a lone wolf, who looked really dizzy, and go direct, and even though she has distant body lang, and everything, I think “you are GOING to feel attracted to me!” and keep going, and what do you know… it worked! I pull her back into our ultra cool vip section, but bump into a big bad Mexican guy and he wants to fight or something, I try to apologize, but he I guess he no comprendo ingles, so I just kind of walk away, cus I know Qual’s got my back. I dance waaayyyy hardcore with her, basically having sex with her freaky style, but when the dance was finished, she just left. Then I realized that I failed to apply the cat string theory… I let her have too much, I was too aggressive and she realized that I wanted to have sex with her and to her, that was enough, I gave her too much and she didn’t see the point. I retreat back to our guarded fortress and plop down.
Downtrodden, confused and defeated. I look to APB for any sign of compassion, but all I get from him is “It’s 2’o clock, you’re on your own now, make something happen.” I’m like What the Fuckin Fuck! Fuck you, and I just left and angrily sought a prey. I see one! . It was a picture perfect approach. I had already social proofed the room by freaking with Jewelz and having great interactions with other people in the club. I remember seeing this really hot girl standing by the bar so I went to approach, then all of a sudden a fat fugly girl is talking to her, 2 set, then as I'm about to open ms. fugly I see this really snazzy lookin black dude in a white suit and I complement him on it, I really did think it was cool, and then he said something about seeing me in the dance floor or something and he liked me so he told me to have fun with the girl or something, then he takes the fugly, who turned out to be his girlfriend (go figure) and I open the set. I go direct, it blasts open.
I befriend yet another friend of hers and then when all is going well the fugly comes back and says that she has to go to the bathroom. Bells go off in my head and I immediately tell her that I love the way she dances, she lights up like a christmas tree and tells us to stay and that she'll be right back. Perfect. Her other friend waves me over and tells me to take good care of her friend. At this point I'm thinkin, oh yeah, I'm gettin laid tonite. I extract her, and she asks if we're coming back and I'm like hell no. But then I quickly change my answer when I see her hesitation, I tell her, yeah of course we're coming back... Everything went well, we were vibing, I read her palm in the cab and she loved it, she later told me it was completely true, which was awesome, and the cab driver even tried to read her palm after we arrived at her hotel. She was such a sweet girl, but I didn't know how to counter the LMR and the age thing, and thoughout the bootcamp I was too aggressive, need to work on my push pull... and so alarms went off in her head. So all I could do was kiss close this hottie that I pulled in less than 10 minutes from the cold approach.
Day 3: Graduation!The life of a pickup artist. Here I come. We finish up on the lectures, and we don’t go shopping because we’re all pretty well dressed. I think Adamm had the best fashion of the students. I don’t do so well. But I begin to see the matrix. I amoged WAYYY too much and these two AFC’s even called in a bouncer to tell me to leave their table cus they didn’t want to themselves, so I just leave… cus the bouncer looked like a mix between Mike Tyson and Mr. T. Opening sets was easy now. I have good attraction game at this point, but very little mid-game, probably from my lack of social experience. I didn’t make anything happen that night. This was the night I had like 2 people ask me if they were on camera. I open up a 2 set, guy and girl, the girl is a sex change surgeon and the guy is a rich hobag. I chat them up for a long time, I neg her by telling her that she’s probably a man. She later repositions herself to be close to me, but I’m tired of this shit, so I just decide to do something and I ask her me “Do you know that this guy (the afc bitch) just wants to fuck you?’ her “yeah blah blah, he’s afc”me “do you want to fuck him?”her “no blah blah”me “ then come sit with me, I have a table over there, I want to get to know you a little better”her “no blah blah (while smiling)”
Maybe I should have pulled them both… I probably have horrible verbal game, but I don’t know, I can still create attraction, but I’m just not very socially experienced, What I said might have been totally out of line, so I welcome comments, but I just started getting tired of it all… so I just left. It’s 4’o clock, Rumble could have pulled a HB9 but his sexual anxiety keeps getting the best of him. As we’re leaving the hotel, APB points to a lone wolf at the slots, so I beat Adamm to it and open the set, turns out she has a bf and he comes later on, so I leave, seeing no further progress possible. Then… ahh my turn to tell the story. I see a 2 set, I open HB7tallerthanme with direct, and she’s loving it, and as I’m about to get to my totally awesome punchline, APB tells me to leave. I go frikin alpha on him because part of me thinks it’s an amog exercise, another part of me thinks, it him testing my resolve to stay in a set, another part of me is totally confused, another part of me is listening to the pussy power asking me if he’s the boss of me and telling me to tell them what I wanted them to say. And so I’m a confused mess, then APB gives me the pizza story and then I get it and I leave. He yells and screams at me, I almost get toy machine sent to jail, I don’t know what’s going on, they’res more yelling and screaming and crying. I tear up a little bit when I can see he understands me, but then I’m encouraged as he tells me I’m going to get damn good at the game, which I’m happy about, which was also repeated by every other instructor, which cheered me up quite a bit. Then stupid Jewelz and her huge breasts breaks my sunglasses with her hug of might. I’m like WTF Jewelz! These were like $2! I say bye to the boys, I’m loving all the feedback we’re getting, it’s so important. And Qual pulled a HB to her room so I was a little jealous, but at the same time I really needed to get my ass spanked by APB.
I don’t know what the bootcamp taught anyone else, but it taught me about brotherhood, and about just socializing in general and becoming a genuine man. This is going to be a crazy year for me. I’ve been studying self help and for 1 ½ years, which led me all the way to Vegas to study with the masters, now it’s time for me to really get to work on myself. The bootcamp pushed me out of my shell, and now I’m beginning to see all that is possible in me. It gave me a pushstart for my go-cart of pickup, and for that I’ll be forever grateful. And who knows, one day I’ll drive a Lamborghini.
Testimonial by APB Student
First off, I want to say that I was a little bit unsure of what toexpect out of this consultation. I thought it was going to be ascripted Q&A session that would essentially cover the basics for whatwould be needed before I take the bootcamp. I gave Quality a call andhe seemed a little busy at first but he made time to give me the hourconsultation (which actually lasted about an hour and thirty minuteslol).
Quality asked me if I was able to identify my sticking points but atfirst I wasn't really able to explain it. He asked me some really goodquestions that got me to talk about the interactions I've had withwomen which eventually lead me to see my real sticking points. I tendto be really talkative (Quality seems a little bit talkative too butthe difference is he's rocking out with all kinds of pussy and I'mnot) and he explained how what I say needs to have a purpose. He wasalso able to see that the things I say to women tend to seekvalidation.These are inner game issues and just a brief description ofwhat he was explaining to me.
I also told him that there was a certain type of woman who I alwaysseem to attract (professional, non-party type girls) and he told mehow there are 5 different types of women and how they are attracted toa particular kind of guy (and I happened to be the type that attractedthe aforementioned. His analysis of my sticking points were spot onand I had sort of a mini-epiphany right after.
Even if I didn't sign up for a bootcamp, the PERSONALIZED help that Quality gave has been much more useful than any local PUAs, shit I'veread over the Internet (I've studied this stuff online for like 5years), or person in general has given to me in a LONG time. Heexplained the process for developing a routine stack and what I canwork on before I go to the workshop.
Quality was very attentive towhat I had to say and made an effort to answer it as best as he could.I had a lot of questions and he seemed pretty patient in answering allof them.
I think I got him off tangent a few times but it was great because wewould talk about some shit that really gave me a sense of who he is asa person. If he really didn't care about my progress or where I wouldlike to be he probably wouldn't have took the time to converse withme. The whole conversation wasn't just business and I could tell fromthe way he talked about ABCs of Attraction that he really believes inwhat he's doing.
Quality even told me the story (in an entertaining fashion) of hisfield report in Vegas where he winged for someone (but ditched theobstacle to get some Venezuelan pussy for himself...in which theobstacle came back to cockblock the guy he was winging... OUCH! ohwell...the guy he was winging shouldve planned for that better!).Through Quality's story I was able to understand his belief system bythe way he would talk about certain aspects of a story. He was veryconfident and sure of himself.
Overall this was a great experience. If this was just a consultation,I wonder what the bootcamp is gonna by like. And Quality...thanks forall the help bro... soon enough I'LL BE giving YOU tips! JUST KIDDING.You already rock...I'll do everything you told me to do. I won't letyou down!
-Andrew, San Francisco
Quality asked me if I was able to identify my sticking points but atfirst I wasn't really able to explain it. He asked me some really goodquestions that got me to talk about the interactions I've had withwomen which eventually lead me to see my real sticking points. I tendto be really talkative (Quality seems a little bit talkative too butthe difference is he's rocking out with all kinds of pussy and I'mnot) and he explained how what I say needs to have a purpose. He wasalso able to see that the things I say to women tend to seekvalidation.These are inner game issues and just a brief description ofwhat he was explaining to me.
I also told him that there was a certain type of woman who I alwaysseem to attract (professional, non-party type girls) and he told mehow there are 5 different types of women and how they are attracted toa particular kind of guy (and I happened to be the type that attractedthe aforementioned. His analysis of my sticking points were spot onand I had sort of a mini-epiphany right after.
Even if I didn't sign up for a bootcamp, the PERSONALIZED help that Quality gave has been much more useful than any local PUAs, shit I'veread over the Internet (I've studied this stuff online for like 5years), or person in general has given to me in a LONG time. Heexplained the process for developing a routine stack and what I canwork on before I go to the workshop.
Quality was very attentive towhat I had to say and made an effort to answer it as best as he could.I had a lot of questions and he seemed pretty patient in answering allof them.
I think I got him off tangent a few times but it was great because wewould talk about some shit that really gave me a sense of who he is asa person. If he really didn't care about my progress or where I wouldlike to be he probably wouldn't have took the time to converse withme. The whole conversation wasn't just business and I could tell fromthe way he talked about ABCs of Attraction that he really believes inwhat he's doing.
Quality even told me the story (in an entertaining fashion) of hisfield report in Vegas where he winged for someone (but ditched theobstacle to get some Venezuelan pussy for himself...in which theobstacle came back to cockblock the guy he was winging... OUCH! ohwell...the guy he was winging shouldve planned for that better!).Through Quality's story I was able to understand his belief system bythe way he would talk about certain aspects of a story. He was veryconfident and sure of himself.
Overall this was a great experience. If this was just a consultation,I wonder what the bootcamp is gonna by like. And Quality...thanks forall the help bro... soon enough I'LL BE giving YOU tips! JUST KIDDING.You already rock...I'll do everything you told me to do. I won't letyou down!
-Andrew, San Francisco
Saturday, October 6, 2007
LR: A Classic Misadventure
So I’m in Vegas helping APB with the group boot camp this past weekend when an ABC Coach (Oz) was in a two set. APB told me to help wing. Came in with indirect BL, ignored the girls and told Oz, “Hey Oz! Everyone is going to get drinks at the bar, do you want anything?” He replies, “No I’m good bro! But hey let me introduce you to some new friends of mine.” After I was introduced, he BLP’ed himself to do a mini isolation with his target while I was keeping HBMilf occupied. After a few minutes, I used my Patented Quality’s Palm reading gambit to initiate Kino and to further isolate and have better BL positioning. After another 10 minutes, Oz’s target suggests we go to dance on the dance floor. I agreed, just to pace her but knew that it wouldn’t progress the sarge since it won’t fully allow for isolate of her and her friend if I went with them. So I suggested they go on the dance floor first while I introduce her to the APB team members and told her to come with me to get another drink. (That’s solid wing action, if I do say so myself! J I normally go solo so winging isn’t my forte but as you can see, I’m able to hold my own!!!)
So as we are standing at the bar, I used HBMilf as a pivot and saw a mixed 3 set. It was obvious that my target, HBVenezuela wasn’t having fun and her friends were a couple having serious drama! So brought her in the conversation and had immediate attraction and rapport since I teach salsa and admire the Latin culture. Furthermore, she is attracted to Asians and I was charming her with my limited Spanish I know. Did some dance moves with some heavy Kino which includes ass grabbing. Her friends got into a fight with each other and pulled her away. HBMilf got jealous and pulled me back to an outdoor table. It was on! She was rubbing my inner thigh while talking about heavy sexual topics and qualifying herself as being a fun, party girl who loves sex etc. About to go in for a kiss close but her friend came back with Oz to check up. (More good wing action) After she got the thumbs up, it allowed for Oz to even further isolate even more since she knew her friend was okay. Our sexual state broke and we were running low on drinks so we got another one.
Came back to the bar, and HBVenezuela and her female friend were there. Apparently her friend got into a huge fight with her man so there was drama! She came up and gave me a big hug and started dancing/grinding on me. She kept saying she didn’t want to be there but she was glad she came since she got to meet me. More dancing in front of HBMilf while she was buying me drinks and HBVenezuela complies with my forehead and nose Kino then grabbed my crotch…..It’s on!!! Two birds in one hand….. What to do…. What to do…. One is already isolate, the other isn’t. Dang!!! Why am I always more attracted to the harder one!! APB’s quote ”Logistics gets you laid” is running through my head.”
Her friend decided to go find her BF and dragged HBVenezuela with her. Apprently HBMilf saw the crotch grabbing and got jealous so wanted to go find her friend on the dance floor instead of isolating herself back to the table we were at. So we went to the dance floor and I made some excuse to use the restroom to plan out logistics. After coming out I see HBMilf on the edge of the dance floor waiting for me, and HBVenezuela on the left near the bar BY HERSELF!!! BINGO!!!!
Walked over to the bar, with a little swagger, and she said her friend got into a fight with her also and left her. She wanted to leave but came with both of her friends and didn’t want to get a taxi by herself. Reached out my hand, and said “Come on baby! You’ll roll with me!!” Walked out of the club while ducking as I saw HBMilf in my peripherals looking for me. Walked her to the taxi stand and waited in line with her when I ask her where she was staying. “Bellagio”….. “Dang girl! There is this bad ass noodle place there! You are tempting me….” Lead her into the back seat of the cab, one hand on the door, the other on the roof of the cab, and said “You know what?!?!” Thought about it for a second to make it seem spontaneous…. “Move over!!!” Hopped in the taxi and drove to Bellagio. Started to make out, then pulled back. Ran some Patented APB Pre-LMR techniques and some of my own. Told her I had to take a piss so let’s swing by her room first. Made out in the elevator. Got into her room. Pulled her in close. Made out some more. Slammed her against the door. Neck biting. Hair pulling. Off came the shirt and pants. Picked her up and threw her on the bed. Started making out and kissed her from the neck down to her tummy. Got to the panty line when I experienced a gush of fowl fishy smell! (My biggest turn off) NOOOOOOO!!!! Say it isn’t so!!! There goes my hard on!!! Pulled off the panties anyways. Her cooch was not shaven and had stubble on her legs and butt! (My second biggest turn off) An hour and a half later of trying. I knew that it ain’t gonna happen. Quality’s junior came back into its protective cocoon!! I guess it wasn’t in the mood for fish!!! :D
So I get half dressed when the door opens and her friend comes in screaming and yelling say stuff like “I looked everywhere for you!!! Where the hell were you?!” “I just broke up with my BF and you just left me hanging!!!” and HBVenezuela is yelling back “Why did you leave me there! You know I didn’t want to go. I came for you… etc”
Standing there with my jeans and shoes in hand, I thought to myself “This is probably my cue to exit”. So I ran out the room and put the rest of my clothes on in the hallway. I said to myself “What just happened?!” “Damn that was Drama!” “Serious Drama!”
Went downstairs. Didn’t go to the noodle place since I lost my appetite with the whole fishy smell. Saw a roulette table. Put $100 on black! Damn a happy ending after all!!!
~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
Quality@abcofattraction.com
So as we are standing at the bar, I used HBMilf as a pivot and saw a mixed 3 set. It was obvious that my target, HBVenezuela wasn’t having fun and her friends were a couple having serious drama! So brought her in the conversation and had immediate attraction and rapport since I teach salsa and admire the Latin culture. Furthermore, she is attracted to Asians and I was charming her with my limited Spanish I know. Did some dance moves with some heavy Kino which includes ass grabbing. Her friends got into a fight with each other and pulled her away. HBMilf got jealous and pulled me back to an outdoor table. It was on! She was rubbing my inner thigh while talking about heavy sexual topics and qualifying herself as being a fun, party girl who loves sex etc. About to go in for a kiss close but her friend came back with Oz to check up. (More good wing action) After she got the thumbs up, it allowed for Oz to even further isolate even more since she knew her friend was okay. Our sexual state broke and we were running low on drinks so we got another one.
Came back to the bar, and HBVenezuela and her female friend were there. Apparently her friend got into a huge fight with her man so there was drama! She came up and gave me a big hug and started dancing/grinding on me. She kept saying she didn’t want to be there but she was glad she came since she got to meet me. More dancing in front of HBMilf while she was buying me drinks and HBVenezuela complies with my forehead and nose Kino then grabbed my crotch…..It’s on!!! Two birds in one hand….. What to do…. What to do…. One is already isolate, the other isn’t. Dang!!! Why am I always more attracted to the harder one!! APB’s quote ”Logistics gets you laid” is running through my head.”
Her friend decided to go find her BF and dragged HBVenezuela with her. Apprently HBMilf saw the crotch grabbing and got jealous so wanted to go find her friend on the dance floor instead of isolating herself back to the table we were at. So we went to the dance floor and I made some excuse to use the restroom to plan out logistics. After coming out I see HBMilf on the edge of the dance floor waiting for me, and HBVenezuela on the left near the bar BY HERSELF!!! BINGO!!!!
Walked over to the bar, with a little swagger, and she said her friend got into a fight with her also and left her. She wanted to leave but came with both of her friends and didn’t want to get a taxi by herself. Reached out my hand, and said “Come on baby! You’ll roll with me!!” Walked out of the club while ducking as I saw HBMilf in my peripherals looking for me. Walked her to the taxi stand and waited in line with her when I ask her where she was staying. “Bellagio”….. “Dang girl! There is this bad ass noodle place there! You are tempting me….” Lead her into the back seat of the cab, one hand on the door, the other on the roof of the cab, and said “You know what?!?!” Thought about it for a second to make it seem spontaneous…. “Move over!!!” Hopped in the taxi and drove to Bellagio. Started to make out, then pulled back. Ran some Patented APB Pre-LMR techniques and some of my own. Told her I had to take a piss so let’s swing by her room first. Made out in the elevator. Got into her room. Pulled her in close. Made out some more. Slammed her against the door. Neck biting. Hair pulling. Off came the shirt and pants. Picked her up and threw her on the bed. Started making out and kissed her from the neck down to her tummy. Got to the panty line when I experienced a gush of fowl fishy smell! (My biggest turn off) NOOOOOOO!!!! Say it isn’t so!!! There goes my hard on!!! Pulled off the panties anyways. Her cooch was not shaven and had stubble on her legs and butt! (My second biggest turn off) An hour and a half later of trying. I knew that it ain’t gonna happen. Quality’s junior came back into its protective cocoon!! I guess it wasn’t in the mood for fish!!! :D
So I get half dressed when the door opens and her friend comes in screaming and yelling say stuff like “I looked everywhere for you!!! Where the hell were you?!” “I just broke up with my BF and you just left me hanging!!!” and HBVenezuela is yelling back “Why did you leave me there! You know I didn’t want to go. I came for you… etc”
Standing there with my jeans and shoes in hand, I thought to myself “This is probably my cue to exit”. So I ran out the room and put the rest of my clothes on in the hallway. I said to myself “What just happened?!” “Damn that was Drama!” “Serious Drama!”
Went downstairs. Didn’t go to the noodle place since I lost my appetite with the whole fishy smell. Saw a roulette table. Put $100 on black! Damn a happy ending after all!!!
~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
Quality@abcofattraction.com
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