My old layout was a quick blog setup so not too much time and thought was put into it. So since I am still up and can't fall asleep, I might as well do something productive. So introducing Quality's new blog look!!!
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Sunday, January 27, 2008
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Quality's - ABC of Attraction Weekly Tip #3
Weekly tip #3
“Bitch!! Where ma money?!” How to pay. The gangsta way!
When starting out in the community, I was bombarded and overwhelmed with so many theories, routines, and rules. I went out and tried almost everything while not really understanding the basic concepts and how to apply them. Not fully understanding the concepts and how it applies resulted to me being humbled and humiliated on many occasions. Boy did I pay my dues!!!
One concept generally misunderstood is the concept of not paying for her. Supplication. As Ross Jefferies says, “Those who supplicates…….masturbates!” Generally, you wouldn’t want to offer her a drink to talk to her or pay for her dinner to get her come out with you. But due to society programming, there are scenarios that are appropriate to pay for her and if you don’t, it can make her feel awkward and uncomfortable. All that hard work to building comfort and connection is now in jeopardy because you’re a cheapo. So to give you guys some ways you can pay for the ladies while avoiding the supplication traps and a date with Rosie Palmer and her 5 sisters, read on!
Buying her drinks
Tell her, “I feel like getting a drink, come with me!” If she complies, reward her for being a good girl. Order your drink then turn around and say, “What would you like to drink?” This conveys that you want to get a drink for yourself and asked her to come along. And since she complied, you are a cool guy and offer her one too. That’s a completely different frame from, “Can I buy you a drink.” The latter shows that you are offering her a drink and implies that you want to buy her time so that she will hopefully be nice and allow you to talk to her a little longer.
Remember, men are providers after all so you will need to demonstrate that you can provide for her if needed. Do this only if she is a good girl and not to win her over with your money. I’ve had many occasions when I could have gotten some action if only I were able to get the voice of “Don’t ever buy her a drink” out of my head and use the proper framing for it when I did. Remember everything you learn is a guideline. Not a rule. Understand the concept and theory, and be sure you know how to apply it.
Got it? Let’s try it again. Here’s another example.
Paying for dinner the AFC way
Taking her to dinner as the main part of the date and paying for her.
Paying for dinner, the PUA way.
“Hey I’m hungry! I want to grab a bite to eat.” I would also take the lead and try to order for her by making recommendations. Because YOU wanted to eat and you did all the ordering, it’s only fair to pay. The same is expected even with your buddies. What you can also do for good measure, is when the check comes out, grab the check and tell her, “I got this one, you can get dessert.” Even if she doesn’t fight or offer to pay, it will set the frame that it’s not going to be a free ride for her and that she will need to invest some funds later if she want any more of you.
On a side note, encourage sharing for good pair bonding measure. i.e. “Let’s share an appetizer and an entrée. They make the best calamari here. And the spaghetti is to die for. You cool with that?” The purpose with getting her confirmation is to show that you can be a man and take the lead, but at the same time, you respect her input. Also, you make sure she isn’t allergic to any of the food. The cheese on that spaghetti will guarantee some ass if she’s lactose intolerant.….Smelly ass! :D
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
“Bitch!! Where ma money?!” How to pay. The gangsta way!
When starting out in the community, I was bombarded and overwhelmed with so many theories, routines, and rules. I went out and tried almost everything while not really understanding the basic concepts and how to apply them. Not fully understanding the concepts and how it applies resulted to me being humbled and humiliated on many occasions. Boy did I pay my dues!!!
One concept generally misunderstood is the concept of not paying for her. Supplication. As Ross Jefferies says, “Those who supplicates…….masturbates!” Generally, you wouldn’t want to offer her a drink to talk to her or pay for her dinner to get her come out with you. But due to society programming, there are scenarios that are appropriate to pay for her and if you don’t, it can make her feel awkward and uncomfortable. All that hard work to building comfort and connection is now in jeopardy because you’re a cheapo. So to give you guys some ways you can pay for the ladies while avoiding the supplication traps and a date with Rosie Palmer and her 5 sisters, read on!
Buying her drinks
Tell her, “I feel like getting a drink, come with me!” If she complies, reward her for being a good girl. Order your drink then turn around and say, “What would you like to drink?” This conveys that you want to get a drink for yourself and asked her to come along. And since she complied, you are a cool guy and offer her one too. That’s a completely different frame from, “Can I buy you a drink.” The latter shows that you are offering her a drink and implies that you want to buy her time so that she will hopefully be nice and allow you to talk to her a little longer.
Remember, men are providers after all so you will need to demonstrate that you can provide for her if needed. Do this only if she is a good girl and not to win her over with your money. I’ve had many occasions when I could have gotten some action if only I were able to get the voice of “Don’t ever buy her a drink” out of my head and use the proper framing for it when I did. Remember everything you learn is a guideline. Not a rule. Understand the concept and theory, and be sure you know how to apply it.
Got it? Let’s try it again. Here’s another example.
Paying for dinner the AFC way
Taking her to dinner as the main part of the date and paying for her.
Paying for dinner, the PUA way.
“Hey I’m hungry! I want to grab a bite to eat.” I would also take the lead and try to order for her by making recommendations. Because YOU wanted to eat and you did all the ordering, it’s only fair to pay. The same is expected even with your buddies. What you can also do for good measure, is when the check comes out, grab the check and tell her, “I got this one, you can get dessert.” Even if she doesn’t fight or offer to pay, it will set the frame that it’s not going to be a free ride for her and that she will need to invest some funds later if she want any more of you.
On a side note, encourage sharing for good pair bonding measure. i.e. “Let’s share an appetizer and an entrée. They make the best calamari here. And the spaghetti is to die for. You cool with that?” The purpose with getting her confirmation is to show that you can be a man and take the lead, but at the same time, you respect her input. Also, you make sure she isn’t allergic to any of the food. The cheese on that spaghetti will guarantee some ass if she’s lactose intolerant.….Smelly ass! :D
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Quality's - ABC of Attraction Weekly Tip #2
Quality’s - Sexual Tension and Dominance routine a.k.a. “The Panty Soaker”
Here it is guys! What peaked your curiosity for weeks is now being revealed! I am about to reveal my “money” Quality’s Sexual Tension and Dominance routine a.k.a. “The Panty Soaker” (As mentioned in the Quality’s 100% Successful LMR Post).
Be careful when using it because it can turn her on so much that she will take serious advantage of you! You’ve gotten fair warning!
When you are at the extraction location, take her hand and lead her to the bedroom or anywhere that you plan to have the LMR battle. It is a good idea to ground it with something like “Come with me.(Reach out your hand) I want to show you my horoscope book. Let’s see if we are compatible.” Chick crack works best.
Then as you walk her through the room, apply Quality’s The Panty Soaker. One thing to note is that you should have already given her an attraction kiss or have some sexual tension establish. Pre-LMR should have long been started.
Quality’s The Panty Soaker.
As you walk, lead her by the hand to your room. Close the door behind you slightly leaving it opened 2 to 5 inches. Then stop and pull her towards you and give her a long passionate kiss. Then make out with her for a while and make sure the kiss is a sexual kiss. Then as she gets more and more turned on, hold her tight and turn her around. Back her up against the door with one hand on the back of her lower head (to absorb impact). Then push your body against hers and slam her against the door. Slam it moderately hard. It won’t hurt her since the slightly opened door will absorb the impact. Make sure you kiss more passionately right after you slam her as you moan and make sexual noises. Make out some more. Then with the hand behind her head, dig it deep under her hair and grab a hand full of hair by the roots and pull slowly and firmly downward. If you do it right, it should look like a scene in the movies when a women emerges from the water with her head tilted up towards the sky. I make a dramatic moan at that point. I start kissing down the neck and stop where the neck meets the shoulders. Dig deep with your teeth and lips into that crevice and bite firming. Bite a few notches below breaking the skin. You will be surprise how much pain that area can take. Make elaborate moan noises at that point.
This is my favorite part:
At the point of peak arousal, I pull away and tell her we should stop/slow down and I break away walking towards the bed/book shelf etc. This is an example of how APB’s Hot/Cold could be applied before hand. It will leave her on a high note and wanting more. She will usually follow you towards the bed since she will want some more. Whether she follows you or not (I say something witty to her i.e. “Oh you want more? You’re in trouble little girl!”, I will then pick her up and toss her on the bed. You then have two options at that point. You can leave her on her back or turn her over so that she is laying on her stomach, then straddle her. Pin both of her arms down at the wrist with your hands and move very slowly towards her and lightly touch your lips while blowing warm air around her face, ear, neck and shoulders. Kiss, lick and bite accordingly. I personally like to start with her on her back. Turn her on, then turn her over. That way, I can unbuckle her bra strap while biting and kissing her neck and back. Women get highly aroused while biting of the back of her neck and lower head. Yes you might have hair in your teeth but it will drive her crazy! Then start getting ready for some fun!
Why it works: Women are naturally submissive, just as a man’s nature is to be dominant. Men gets turned on seeing a women with feminine features such as big boobs, hip/waist ratio and butts, women gets turn on by a man making her submissive. They can’t help it. When you demonstrate those key attraction switches which are taking the lead and dominance, she can’t help but to be turned on by your actions. There is something totally dominant about slamming a girl against the wall that drives her crazy. Furthermore, the dominance combo of hair pulling, neck biting, tossing and straddling just tops it off. That’s an example of letting your primal instincts come out. It is what we call cave manning. If the sexual tension was well established, then you can feel her warmth and wetness through her panties. They are usually soaking wet by the time you throw them on the bed. I once had a girl orgasm as I pinned her down as I dry humped her while telling her that she can’t do anything about what I am about to do to her and to quit resisting me because I know how much she loves it.
This routine will allow you to stimulate her physically and mainly psychologically. As I said before, the psychological is what will really turn her on. The feeling of surrender to a woman is highly arousing. The Quality’s Panty Soaker gives you the one-two punch you need to get her primed and ready so that you can unleash your animalistic urges on her.
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
_________________________________
Quality - Asian Playboy Intern Coach/Instructor
ABCs of Attraction
quality@abcofattraction.com
qualitypua.blogspot.com
"Asian Playboy Voted World's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" -2007 PUA Summit
Here it is guys! What peaked your curiosity for weeks is now being revealed! I am about to reveal my “money” Quality’s Sexual Tension and Dominance routine a.k.a. “The Panty Soaker” (As mentioned in the Quality’s 100% Successful LMR Post).
Be careful when using it because it can turn her on so much that she will take serious advantage of you! You’ve gotten fair warning!
When you are at the extraction location, take her hand and lead her to the bedroom or anywhere that you plan to have the LMR battle. It is a good idea to ground it with something like “Come with me.(Reach out your hand) I want to show you my horoscope book. Let’s see if we are compatible.” Chick crack works best.
Then as you walk her through the room, apply Quality’s The Panty Soaker. One thing to note is that you should have already given her an attraction kiss or have some sexual tension establish. Pre-LMR should have long been started.
Quality’s The Panty Soaker.
As you walk, lead her by the hand to your room. Close the door behind you slightly leaving it opened 2 to 5 inches. Then stop and pull her towards you and give her a long passionate kiss. Then make out with her for a while and make sure the kiss is a sexual kiss. Then as she gets more and more turned on, hold her tight and turn her around. Back her up against the door with one hand on the back of her lower head (to absorb impact). Then push your body against hers and slam her against the door. Slam it moderately hard. It won’t hurt her since the slightly opened door will absorb the impact. Make sure you kiss more passionately right after you slam her as you moan and make sexual noises. Make out some more. Then with the hand behind her head, dig it deep under her hair and grab a hand full of hair by the roots and pull slowly and firmly downward. If you do it right, it should look like a scene in the movies when a women emerges from the water with her head tilted up towards the sky. I make a dramatic moan at that point. I start kissing down the neck and stop where the neck meets the shoulders. Dig deep with your teeth and lips into that crevice and bite firming. Bite a few notches below breaking the skin. You will be surprise how much pain that area can take. Make elaborate moan noises at that point.
This is my favorite part:
At the point of peak arousal, I pull away and tell her we should stop/slow down and I break away walking towards the bed/book shelf etc. This is an example of how APB’s Hot/Cold could be applied before hand. It will leave her on a high note and wanting more. She will usually follow you towards the bed since she will want some more. Whether she follows you or not (I say something witty to her i.e. “Oh you want more? You’re in trouble little girl!”, I will then pick her up and toss her on the bed. You then have two options at that point. You can leave her on her back or turn her over so that she is laying on her stomach, then straddle her. Pin both of her arms down at the wrist with your hands and move very slowly towards her and lightly touch your lips while blowing warm air around her face, ear, neck and shoulders. Kiss, lick and bite accordingly. I personally like to start with her on her back. Turn her on, then turn her over. That way, I can unbuckle her bra strap while biting and kissing her neck and back. Women get highly aroused while biting of the back of her neck and lower head. Yes you might have hair in your teeth but it will drive her crazy! Then start getting ready for some fun!
Why it works: Women are naturally submissive, just as a man’s nature is to be dominant. Men gets turned on seeing a women with feminine features such as big boobs, hip/waist ratio and butts, women gets turn on by a man making her submissive. They can’t help it. When you demonstrate those key attraction switches which are taking the lead and dominance, she can’t help but to be turned on by your actions. There is something totally dominant about slamming a girl against the wall that drives her crazy. Furthermore, the dominance combo of hair pulling, neck biting, tossing and straddling just tops it off. That’s an example of letting your primal instincts come out. It is what we call cave manning. If the sexual tension was well established, then you can feel her warmth and wetness through her panties. They are usually soaking wet by the time you throw them on the bed. I once had a girl orgasm as I pinned her down as I dry humped her while telling her that she can’t do anything about what I am about to do to her and to quit resisting me because I know how much she loves it.
This routine will allow you to stimulate her physically and mainly psychologically. As I said before, the psychological is what will really turn her on. The feeling of surrender to a woman is highly arousing. The Quality’s Panty Soaker gives you the one-two punch you need to get her primed and ready so that you can unleash your animalistic urges on her.
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
_________________________________
Quality - Asian Playboy Intern Coach/Instructor
ABCs of Attraction
quality@abcofattraction.com
qualitypua.blogspot.com
"Asian Playboy Voted World's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" -2007 PUA Summit
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Quality - ABCs of Attraction's Tip of the Week #1
Getting into the game, I came up with many tips and tricks that have helped me with my game. So to help my fellow PUAs out, I will post a weekly tip to help with your game. Feel free to use the tips and report back with any successes or feedback. These tips have been 100% field tested and proven by yours truly!
Weekly tip #1
While upselling to extract an HB from a club or get a Day2, try to focus the upsell on her senses and emotions. For instance, “I know a place that makes the best waffles in town. It comes out hot and crispy on the outside but warm and moist in the inside. And their homemade maple syrup that is to die for! Mmmmm….. I’m getting hungry! Come get some waffles with me! That is much better than “We are going to Denny’s. You should come along.”
Another example is: “I found a really cool coffee house the other day that makes the best cup of coffee. It’s a really cozy place with local artist paintings and a huge fire place. All their coffee beans are imported so the moment you step in, you can smell the fresh ground coffee in the air and the first sip tastes just as good as the last! We can relax on their warm comfy couches and continue our conversation there.” Isn’t that better than “You got to meet me up for coffee sometime”?
So when you ground the number close with a day two, or get her to extract with you, I found it most successful when I anchor some positive emotions and senses. It also greatly minimizes my flaking.
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
_______________________________________
~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
quality@abcofattraction.com
"Asian Playboy Voted Wrold's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" -2007 PUA Summit
Weekly tip #1
While upselling to extract an HB from a club or get a Day2, try to focus the upsell on her senses and emotions. For instance, “I know a place that makes the best waffles in town. It comes out hot and crispy on the outside but warm and moist in the inside. And their homemade maple syrup that is to die for! Mmmmm….. I’m getting hungry! Come get some waffles with me! That is much better than “We are going to Denny’s. You should come along.”
Another example is: “I found a really cool coffee house the other day that makes the best cup of coffee. It’s a really cozy place with local artist paintings and a huge fire place. All their coffee beans are imported so the moment you step in, you can smell the fresh ground coffee in the air and the first sip tastes just as good as the last! We can relax on their warm comfy couches and continue our conversation there.” Isn’t that better than “You got to meet me up for coffee sometime”?
So when you ground the number close with a day two, or get her to extract with you, I found it most successful when I anchor some positive emotions and senses. It also greatly minimizes my flaking.
Be sure to check back for next week’s tip of the week. For more tips and information about my highly reviewed phone consultation, feel free to check out by blog at qualitypua.blogspot.com or send me an email at quality@abcofattraction.com.
_______________________________________
~Quality - APB Intern Coach/Instructor
ABC of Attraction
quality@abcofattraction.com
"Asian Playboy Voted Wrold's Greastest Asian Pickup Artist" -2007 PUA Summit
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